Sorry for being rather irritated yesterday. It was so frustrating to have at least 2:1 troop numbers and still get utterly owned at the gates.
Started a new game late evening, which ended up giving me less than 5 hours of sleep

It went a bit better now, but I didn't even try to take on Spain, as she seemed to go heavy military for some reason. First time she has not founded a religion in my games.
France had two warriors, so I had to time it well so the other guy couldn't stroll into Berlin while the cat was gone. Waited to I had 3 warriors now, and took Paris in 3280. Then I saw several Spanish warriors, so didn't even bother going down there given earlier

experiences there. Went to Rome instead, and had Julius Caesar's head on a stick in 2800. Then I headed further east to Greece with 6 warriors (took a while to collect them from here and there). This time I wasn't going to forget the worker like in Rome, so I took 3 extra turns while a warrior headed over to western Turkey (the buggar was building a road there). He only had one defender in Athens, but believe it or not, 4 of my 5 guys died. The two first didn't even rip his shirt.
I was lucky with the huts this time and got a settler, which was settled in the Baltics south of the river. I didn't put it on the coast like cabert in his save, as I wanted to get to the resources there. Not sure what is best, but I tend to go with resources for now as I feel that is "safe". It's 1120 BC now and I have trained two settlers. One I plan to move to Turkey to get to the two wheat spots. Or is it better to go further south and settle by the Jordan river, or by the Israel/Lebanon coast? Both could be very good production areas.
The other settler I want to send north to either Finland or Norway. Which is best? Just north of Hamburg (in the Baltics), or shall I send him to Norway and settle by the coast west or south?
Don't think I have the troops to take on Russia or Spain yet, given I need such a stupendous amount to take out defended cities, and they both have archers now. As far as I can tell England still don't have archers, but she has gotten a 2nd warrior in London now. I have a Galley, but how does it work to invade there? She has a huge culture reach, so when I declare war will the galley be moved back outside the border? Currently we have open borders. Would like to strike now really, but if I'm moved out it will take time when I can only ship two troops.
I'm researching Construction now, so if all went very well I could take out England and then take on Spain when I have some catapults ready. Suggestions on technology after Construction would be welcome, as I'm always unsure what to do here. Too many options! Kid in candystore dilemma
I know Spain has a settler ready, so I don't want to sign open borders with her (though it would be nice to find out exactly what's in Madrid). She would have settled east of Rome if I wasn't incredibly lucky with timing, and Rome's borders expanded north when her settler and archer had come to the stone mine between Barcelona and Rome.
I'm in a pretty good position right now, but I want to secure the whole of Europe. Keeping Spain locked in is nice (hope she doesn't transport anybody out), and it would be great to get to England before they move on to Scandinavia (which may happen any moment). I've also gotten a Great Prophet and built Stonehenge and the Great Wall. Pyramids is almost done too. All in Berlin.
Also, what's up with the site? It's very slow and I get "server is too busy" error message half the time I try to post or navigate. Thank goodness for notepad. I've had to take backups of what I write as I hate losing stuff.