Morningcalm
Keeper of Records
I wasn't aware having sex with a slave was uncommon in that time... Or such ideas about homosexuality, also in that time. And I thought that the French Revolution, while being incredibly bloody, DID bring us a lot of good things (like the metric system, the foundation for modern day democracy (liberté, egalité, fraternité) etc).
I mean, of course they're not GOOD things, but that doesn't mean that he was a horrible man. I mean, Civ V had Augustus Caesar as a leader. He sent his own daugher (and only child, even) into exile for adultry. Bismark, who manipulated people into waging war so he could unite Germany. Napoleon, who waged war with all of Europe. And that's just the leaders I can think of of the top of my head that I KNOW did such things. There's many more out there that probably did horrible things that I don't know of.
A leader doesn't have to have been a saint; he just needs to have been an icon and not TOO controversional/recent (think Hitler). And Thomas Jefferson IS an icon.
I think we tend to forgive more ancient rulers since ancient times were full of warfare and bloodshed. Enlightened figures in the French Revolution era are presumed to have known better. They didn't.
Sex with a slave was uncommon at that time for high officials. John Adams was very much against slavery, Washington wasn't--but no other founding father I know had sex with a slave. Hamilton was embroiled in a sex scandal, but not with a slave (and to his credit he admitted it publicly in the Reynolds pamphlets).
I think advocating castration for homosexuals even in that time is rather....harsh. There were known homosexuals at the time, and even if approval of them was likely low, no high official but Jefferson (if I recall) was advocating their castration.
Of course, all the founding fathers were flawed. John Adams, while morally superior in many ways to the other founding fathers, also succumbed to bitter factionalism within his own party (his clashes with Hamilton were legendary, and tore apart their party). Washington was known as the Town Destroyer by Native Americans due to his having torched many of their villages.
I think Lincoln is the least flawed of the early presidents. While not perfect, I note for example that his execution of Native Americans was also tempered by the fact he spared the majority of the Native Americans that went around murdering people. See http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/08/20/lincoln-and-the-sioux/?_r=0 for the context. Like many presidents before him, Lincoln continued to see Native Americans as wards of the U.S. government, but didn't do much for them in the way of rights. Having said that, he was still a leap forward from other presidents of his era.