Really well played so far. I'm impressed

Especially at controlling Egypt as well as you have. The issue in my game was that he got copper and a few axes and spears, and despite some desperate attempts, I couldn't pillage it. That meant I couldn't do jack about Ramesses.
I read the Wang game from way back, and in later attempts I saw that people would settle cities way out of whack, to claim resources (of course they knew about them then) and lock off land. Looks like you have done much the same here, and I can certainly see the point with that. Perhaps even more so here, when the east is free (though you'll have barbs to struggle with).
I think you are 100% right that hunting for the Oracle only hurt me. Getting the GW is probably still viable, I hope, but it would be better to expand faster and secure some spots, rather than get a free tech with the Oracle, that I pretty soon couldn't use for much good anyway.
I'm still a bit worried about your lack of hill 'frontier' cities, because I got utterly pummeled by stacks by 1AD, but with so much land already, you should have the production soon-ish, so maybe you can make it work. If you get Thebes, you'll also have metal and access to spears and axes, to counter Vultures and such.
Maybe I got too hung up on getting those defensive hill cities, and should have expanded harder instead. Interesting to see how you have played, and that you put so much time and thought into decisions, even on saving 1 workerturn per cottage on grassland v FP. Doubt I would do that, as I simply love FP cottages
Having a woodie2 (even two!) is also of great help. I didn't get that here, but did in the Mansa game, and it is such a huge difference maker.
Not sure if I want to go back to this map since it owned me so very, very hard

But if I do, I'll try to take some lessons from your game and adapt my own. AW is still new to me, and I need to adapt more to harder REX in the beginning, maybe even ignoring settling close to the capital, like I usually do, and go farther out to secure land that can later be backfilled (or in-filled

). Like you say, it's better to do this while you can, because soon enough the AIs will have cities all over the place, and grabbing cities from them is nigh on impossible early on, at least once they get metal.
Good luck with the continuation here. Looks like you are off to a very strong start (even more so if you manage to get Thebes and all its food + copper). That said, it's not a defensive spot, so may be hard to defend later, unless you find a good hill spot over there.
Have played the Mansa map to almost 1000AD now, and in both that and the Suli map I managed to Oracle Feudalism. That makes things so much more manageable. Here I only had archers to defend with, and that simply cannot hold up for long when swords and catas arrive, no matter how well promoted they are. If I try to replay this map, I'll need to get IW earlier, and hope there is iron nearby.
edit: Actually, in one of your pictures, is one of the chariots near the lake west of Thebes parked on top of a hill? That might serve as a defensive point against Sury, fed by the corn in inner ring.