This is all very fair. As I've said before, I take a frankly pretty dim view of the masks-and-bats school of anti-fascism, which I think tends to reflect more than anything the naivety, or less charitably the sheer dumb privilege, of its predominantly white, predominantly male adherents. There are times and places where it has its virtues, places were fascism represents an imminent physical threat to a great many people, and when anti-fascism is a broad and deep enough movement to provide a genuine social basis for such action. I don't think that either of these conditions have been met in the United States, or in much of Western Europe. In Greece or in Russia, I can absolutely see the necessity in resurrecting the traditions of your grandfathers and taking some Nazi scalps. But it's harder to make that argument in countries were the fascists are still, on the whole, a diffuse and cowardly fringe-movement. And most anti-fascists know this, most of them do not turn up to counter-protests dressed in black and swinging bats, but simply as citizens, with the intention not of starting a fight but of providing a direct confrontation. A physical presence, and necessarily so, but fundamentally a physical expression of moral force, rather than an expression of physical force. The fascists will of course immediately turn to expressions of physical force, that's the linchpin of their whole mutant worldview, but we shouldn't hope that it becomes necessary to respond in kind, and without meaning to be too cynical, it's hard not to find just that note of hope in the self-romanticisation of the more "hands-on" anti-fascists.
I think a few too many of my compatriots have become so hung up on the question of whether it is morally acceptable to punch Nazis- and it is, I make absolutely no apologies for that- that they've failed to engage seriously with the place of violence in an anti-fascist movement, or at least do so publicly, were those who are hostile to fascism without themselves being explicitly anti-fascist are able to see it.