Cheating online

[RoboPig]

If you caught your gf/bf/spouse "cheating" on you online (talking to someone else and planning get togethers and stuff like that). would you consider it cheating?

EDIT: to clarify, option 3 means, that they talk online, then they get together, so only once they get together/meet.

 

[nonconformist]

Bastard chaters, they're always landsharking, or using wallhacks, I'd like to put a boot up their arse

 

[Evil Tyrant]

Sounds like cheating to me. Useing the internet is no different than sending letters or calling on a telephone.

 

[AceChilla]

Talking and getting togheter wouldn't qualify as cheating in my book. Depends what they say to eachother, and what they do when they meet eachother. Also if they got a webcam on and the amount of clothes both are wearing when camming.

 

[MobBoss]

Thinking and talking about the deed is only one short step from actually doing the deed. Its all one and the same - unfaithfullness.

Voted yes.

 

[Stylesjl]

Only if they meet. But i will be suspiscous before then

 

[AceChilla]

Thinking and talking about the deed is only one short step from actually doing the deed. Its all one and the same - unfaithfullness.

Voted yes.

It doesn't say talking about the deed. It just says talking and/or planning to meet. They could be exaining football stickers for all I know. Or have some other common interest or hobby they want to talk about.

 

[Bluemofia]

I would be slightly dissapointed, but yes, it would be cheating. (only if they did other acts other than just talk)

 

[Swiss Bezerker]

if they were just talking, its ok but anything more should be considered cheating

 

[GenMarshall]

I would defenately call that cheating.

 

[Mise]

WTH? How is that in any way cheating?!

 

[bhsup]

What are they talking about? I mean, what if the significant other is just an avid bird watcher and all they do is talk about birds they have seen? Just talking with someone is not cheating!

 

[RoboPig]

no, they describe sexual fantasies with one another.

 

[AceChilla]

no, they describe sexual fantasies with one another.

Would be a little weird. But as long as she makes clear those fantasys are with me. And why on earth wouldn't they be

 

[bhsup]

no, they describe sexual fantasies with one another.

Oh. Well then yes, that's cheating.

 

[RoboPig]

Would be a little weird. But as long as she makes clear those fantasys are with me. And why on earth wouldn't they be

the fantasies are between them

 

[AceChilla]

the fantasies are between them

Ok thats when Ill draw a line.

 

[willemvanoranje]

it would incredibly piss me off, even if they never met..

 

[WildFire]

Only if something happens when they meet. If they talk online and decide to meet to hang out, I would maybe think about it but wouldn't let it ruin my day. You can't forbid people to see other people just because you don't want to lose them.