The only thing I can offer is money, since I don't have any prisoners or troops. I would pay a ransom, and then I would offer at least twice as much to anyone who either turned the kidnappers to the police or brought me their bodies. It depends which country they're in which would happen.
If I was in charge of a country with prisoners or troops, then I would have to tell the terrorists that it is not up to me to make such decisions on my own; that whether they have my family or not will not affect such decisions, but that unless they release their hostages the full force of my country will search them out and eliminate them.
The options are
1. kill and be killed
2. live and let live
and in both situations the prisoners or troops stay.
If I was in charge of a country with prisoners or troops, then I would have to tell the terrorists that it is not up to me to make such decisions on my own; that whether they have my family or not will not affect such decisions, but that unless they release their hostages the full force of my country will search them out and eliminate them.
The options are
1. kill and be killed
2. live and let live
and in both situations the prisoners or troops stay.