I've been getting really discouraged myself lately about this sort of thing.
I'm an expander/builder at heart but it seems that any time I get more than a handful of cities the unhappiness becomes quickly overwhelming. Most of my victories have been cultural with 2-3 cities usually but the pacifist-hit-next-turn approach, while effective, gets a bit boring.
So this current game I'm on I picked France, settled my capitol, and starting wiping out civs. 3 Mongol cities, 3 Persian, 3-4 German, 3-4 Russian, 2-3 Greek . . .the continent is huge and the civs were pretty spread out so I basically went clockwise around the whole place. I also hit a smaller island continent and took the 5-ish Iroquois cities there. Then went after ottomans and took their 4-5 cities, now working on India and will then only have Japan (3) and Egypt (7?) left in the world.
My problem? I have had negative happiness almost the entire game. I'd get it up to 3-5 positive for a few tuns but then it would drop again. I believe it is currently at about 85
Pretty much any time I've tried a bunch of cities I get the slow policy growth and happiness issues (though not nearly to this extent usually
)
I would love to be able to have a ton of cities but the gimped policy acquisition and happiness issues usually keep me to a very few cities.
Is there some way of managing a large empire and keeping happiness/policy growth in check that I'm missing? As it sits now every city I capture is going to increase my
by 20 or so. I just gotta try to win before my empire implodes now.