QES
Court Jester
Both of you are trying to help the mod by offering to create and refine ideas. The ironic part is that by engaging in personal attacks and not respecting others opinions you are damaging this forum and peoples ability to create and refine ideas (not to a major degree, this is by far the most positive internet community I have ever been a part of).
In a forum if someone says something that offends you the best thing you can do is to ignore it. Internet fights have no winner, but the forum always loses.
Please resist the urge to attack others. Some people will simply always hold a different opinion than you, now matter how strongly you feel about it or how obvious you feel your point is. Accept that they have a differing opinion and move on.
If you feel like your ideas aren't being considered or used the only person you should be mad at is me. I have no problem with anyone being mad because I don't use their ideas, I just ask that if you feel the need to share that anger with me you do it in a PM instead of on the forum.
I'm going to break with tradition and disagree with Kael here. I dont think people should be using Kael as a target for their frustrations at a lack of preceived input into this MOD. - Martyr complex or no, Kael's the backbone of the operation and he deserves our THANKS, not any amount of scorn.
On personal attacks: I would be a hypocrite to say I'd not engaged in them on the interweb in my life. But, I did so when I was younger, full of both vim and vigor, and generally a nuisance mostly to myself. The purpose of an attack is to draw out a reaction, be it a returned attack, or some weakness we hope to expose to the "light of others" so that our disdain for an individual's ideas might be then shared by others we "convince" to side with us.
The facts are the people dont side with anyone as far as loyalties go. People decide for themselves, especially on a forum as wonderful as this one, where they stand on individual ideas by the merits of the conversation and their own values. They seek not to ally with other forum posters in particular - but instead to the forum itself.
As such - personal attacks serve no real purpose on this forum. Especially in the FFH development section. This is because, and someone please correct me if I'm wrong, people here tend to love the game itself, and the development of the mod itself. We are all, essentially, on the same side. Disagreements need not break out into all out flaming, because they serve literally no purpose. Emotions are not invested, usually, in the implementation of some key aspects of the design, but instead in the growth and unification of everyone of us as a community.
Aggression, as opposed to passion, is clear to anyone who reads any one person's post. Aggrestion is often done passionately, but those who browse these posts are not idiots, and I'd dare to say well above average intellectually and knowledgably (a word I just made up). As such I would hope we would treat each other as we ourselves would want to be treated.
The golden rule is an oldie but a goldie.
-Qes
P.S. And if you simply must hurt each other, use puns. Puns are the weapon of choice for forums, and I gauruntee they'll cause pain. See my "oldie but goldie" above.