OK. I'm a warmonger at heart, but was intrigued at the idea of OCC with the AI doing the warring. So I set up a game with several peacenicks plus napoleon and ragnar. I figure with two high unit builders 1 will not be 1st in power and I can get a DP/PA with the one that is not. I set religions to "choose religions", so i will get christianity with COL and then spread it to napolean (his favorite religion). I also decide to go for pyramids to get representation early (napolean's favorite civic), in an effort to get the "you have chosed your civics wisely" from him, while no one else would be able to (not having representation).
Apparently I have a lot to lean about dipomacy. First of all, I never got a single +1 or anything for "you have chosen your civics wisely" even after researching constitution and gifting it, and getting him to switch to it, still nothing. So here's my question, What does it take to get a "you have chosen your civics wisely" bonus?
Second diplo question. on setup, I did check the PA checkbox, and confirmed in the settings that PA was checked. before i get military tradition, ragnar asks me to go to war against gandhi. Great, war turns reduce DP waiting turns, so I agree. Then I get mil tradition, and look for the DP (defensive pact) option with him......nothing, not even listed on the screen at all. I look at it with napolean, nothing, not even listed. I look at all civs, and it is not even listed on the screen where you discuss deals with them. can trade techs, yes, can convert yes, can adopt civis yes, can exchange resources yes, but no DP option. Is there some hidden requirement I am missing? Are you not allowed to be at war with anybody at all, in order to have the DP option or is there something else that makes it so that DPs are not an option.
I gave up at that point, because although i had both napoleon and ragnar at friendly, it was impossible to get a DP, (since the option was not even listed on the screen), let alone try for a PA.
What am I missing on these two aspects ("you have chosen your civics wisely" & getting DP as a option to trade with)???