who is darn? Are anyone playing with other opponents than zara ramsses ghandi and hatty?
The Best Four Peaceful Opponents:
These (Hatshepsut, Ramesses II, Gandhi and Zara Yaqob) are the Opponents that I originally suggested. Please allow me to explain further why they are ideal for any Small Religious Leader Diplomatic Victory
via Peaceful Coexistence:
Hatshepsut: Gives diplomatic bonus for favorite civic, Organized Religion. +1 Hidden Attitude bonus and Peace Weight of 9. Focus on Religion and Culture, both of which motivate Hatshepsut to research Religion founding Technologies and spread Religions, at least within her own Cultural Boundaries.
Ramesses II: Gives diplomatic bonus for favorite civic, Organized Religion. 0 Hidden Attitude bonus and Peace Weight of 6. Focus on Culture which motivates Ramesses II to research Religion founding Technologies and spread Religions, at least within his own Cultural Boundaries.
Gandhi: +2 Hidden Attitude bonus and Peace Weight of 10. Focus on Culture which motivates Gandhi to research Religion founding Technologies and spread Religions, at least within his own Cultural Boundaries.
Zara Yaqob: +2 Hidden Attitude bonus and Peace Weight of 6. Focus on Religion which motivates Zara Yaqob to research Religion founding Technologies and spread Religions, at least within his own Cultural Boundaries.
As a group, they have Peace Weights ranging from 6-10, so they are unlikely to hate each other enough to start a War. However, there is a
remote chance of some of them having a "Worst Enemy", making trade with that Civ Diplomatically painful and the offended Civ may make occasional demands on you to Stop trading with his/her Worst Enemy.
Alternative Opponents and Shared War Strategy:
[EDIT] (Untested and I may not even try it for Gm-70.) [End EDIT]
As implied in the above paragraph, there may be an advantage to dropping either Gandhi or Zara Yaqob and adding a Civ with a very low Peace Weight for the other three to hate so much that a War is started. After spreading TAP Religion to this Hated Civ, declare War on the other side to gain the Shared War Diplomatic bonus from each War Ally. Note that you should spread TAP Religion to this Civ before the War, to a 1P City if possible. While at War, this Hated Civ is extremely unlikely to spread TAP Religion via Missionaries to his/her other Cities, so losing his/her (1) Vote in the RL DV Election will not affect the Results much. To maximize the Peace Weight differential, it makes sense to drop Zara Yaqob (PW 6) rather than Gandhi (PW 10).
Low Peace Weight Civs with Military goals and no Cultural goals and no Religious goals that will be Hated (They are unlikely to Found a Religion, so you will either need spontaneous non-TAP Religion spread, other Civ non-TAP Religion spread or spread a non-TAP Religion to this Civ yourself):
PW0: Alexander, Genghis Khan, Napoleon, Ragnar
PW1: Tokugawa
PW2: Boudica, Hannibal, Shaka, Stalin
Low Peace Weight Civs with Military goals and either Cultural goals or Religious goals (or both) that will be Hated (They are likely to Found a Religion, but will be too busy with War to spread it, effectively hording it. In the case they don't Found a Religion, you will either need spontaneous non-TAP Religion spread, other Civ non-TAP Religion spread or spread a non-TAP Religion to this Civ yourself):
PW0: Brennus, Montezuma
PW1: Kubai Khan
PW2: Catherine, Gilgamesh, and Mehmed II.
The latter group is better, assuming they found an early Religion and convert to it making them even more Hated and thus War more likely.
In any case, avoid (PW2) Pacal II and Suryavarman II who have Cultural goals and no Military goals. The lack of Military goals implies low chance of War, but still high chance of "Worst Enemy". So these two Low Peace Weight Civs should clearly be avoided entirely when employing this Shared War Strategy.
If you use a Low Peace Weight Opponent to start a War to get the Shared War bonus, try to get Open Borders with it first and send a TAP Religion Missionary. Just before you declare War on it, have the TAP Religion Missionary convert one of its Low Population Cities with NO other Religions (to avoid TAP Religion conversion failure).
Good luck with this alternative Shared War Strategy that adds a Diplomatic bonus for Shared War before Alphabet is available for Lopsided Trades or Shared Technologies bonuses (best with Mansa Musa as he needs only 5 Techs from you).
Other Strategies may be out there for you to discover:
There may be other strategies where replacing either Gandhi or Zara Yaqob with another High or Medium Peace Weight Civ might make sense ... These obviously will not involve Shared War, except unexpectedly.
Sun Tzu Wu