Manfred Belheim
Moaner Lisa
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I disagree. It seems to me that it is the same sort of excessive fear of [whatever] taken to an extreme where it influences behavior far beyond what is warranted as any other phobia. The word is overused, just like arachnophobia or some of the other popular sounds good on social media phobias.
I go out to the garage and see a black widow spider. I will dispose of it, exercising due caution. My friend says "Just crush it in your fist! Whassamatter? Arachnophobia?" There's no phobia there. Like I said though, if unrealistic fears of spiders that might be in the garage have me parking my car out in the street, that's an issue.
Same thing applies to homophobia. The word gets slung around a lot more than people even think about gays. But there are definitely people who are genuinely homophobic. The whole "keep gays away" as if it might be contagious business demonstrates that; unrealistic fear of something that isn't real affecting behavior.
Would you describe racism, sexism, or classism as phobias though? They're pretty much all the same sort of mentality as homophobia, they just don't have "phobia" in the term used to describe them.
While I get the argument (thought don't necessarily believe it) that hatred and bigotry stem from some form of "fear of the different/unknown" or something, it largely manifests as disgust or hate rather than the sort of blind panic you'd associate with actual phobias. I don't think they're the same thing at all.

