Again, you're attempting to analyze the wrong group. Why is it your fault, or the Europeans fault that, an immigrant group responded in a particular manner to a certain impulse? It seems to me that we should be looking at the composition of the immigrants themselves, examine the reasons why they protested, and then determine where the next root cause goes. If you are going to blame the native populace, and it's culture, and it's laws (which you admittedly say that immigrants should abide and follow dutifully anyway), then you must first show some mild form of evidence that a quick route citizenship and cushy social benefits are the ticket to avoiding culturally opposed violence. There's simply no logical connection between your policy prescriptions and the ability to assuage violence, extremism, non-adherence to law, and terrorism. For some reason I think we would have seen pointed violent protests if all countries mirrored Australia's policies.
I really don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but it isn't my logic that is inconsistent. It is yours. You are the one trying to play two sides of a coin where in one situation we can't have laws, but in the other we can. And I happen to believe it stems from your inability to understand the importance of religious faith, and culture (which can be independent of faith) within certain cultures. This is hardly a relativist strawman. Strawmanning is deflection. I'm not deflecting your arguments. I'm - more or less - stuffing your own reasoning back down your throat, because it does not stand up to any sense of rational scrutiny.
What is the functional difference from the perspective of a Somali Muslim between Laicite and banning infibulation? I'm not talking about our perspective which you seem to always want to hone in on. I'm talking about theirs. If you're going to draw lines in the sand justifying an imposition on culture in one respect, then you must justify it for the other. You can't draw a line in the sand and say, "I'm putting my foot down on bodily harm!" when the culture you're imposing this relative viewpoint doesn't give two bloody hoots about what you value in the first place! They value their girls infibulated. They value wearing their veils in public places. They value outward expressions of religion. They value not practicing blasphemy. These are their rules, their values, and their culture. Drawing your line in the sand at bodily harm doesn't matter because that cultural conflict still exists and is bubbling just underneath the surface anyway. All it takes is just a simple expression of freedom of speech to unearth the divide. You have outwardly complained about Laicite, but this does not stand in contra-distinction to western values. You say you want autonomy, well Laicite exists to promote individual autonomy! Don't you see that by trying to make everything black and white: Australia right, Europe wrong, bodily harm bad, individual rights good, you end ignoring a thousand shades of grey that ultimately end up contradicting one another?
You really get to the heart of what the naysayers complain about in your last two sentences. All cultures are diverse and contain different viewpoints within them. Europe has incorporated hundreds of thousands of moderate, liberal, secular immigrants since WWII. But along with them in the diverse potpourri that is Islamic culture, they have also incorporated hundreds of thousands of illiberal Muslims with extremist viewpoints that do not conform or adhere or mesh with western liberal democracy or our pre-existing laws which they are SUPPOSED to abide by and agree to before they come here in the first place.