My heart is broken...

[Hundegesicht]

Heh. Reminds me... about a month ago, when visiting another country for a business trip, I met up with a girl I knew there, spent a day with her, and fell for her head over heels in love. Of course, since she lives an insanely long distance away from me, and I have no plans of moving in the near future, it'd never work. Didn't keep me from having a miserable 2 weeks after that... but it passed. At this point in my life I don't have much trouble letting go.

Love's a ***** like that.

Then again, I've "known" this girl (from forums, chats, phone calls, etc. etc.) for 5 years now, and still talk to her regularily. I'm not even sure it's possible to fall in love with a person you only know online in a month, if at all.

Anyway, my condolences, though I'd really caution you to be more careful about throwing your feelings out there so easily. I mean, you've only known her for a month, and it may be likely she's not really who she's claiming to be. Even if she isn't purposely decieving you, sometimes people broadcast an "idealized" version of themselves online.

 

[Urederra]

Tough dude, tough. How did she break up with you?

I don't think she broke up, mainly because it seems that nothing was tied up in first place.

Xannik seems to put too much hope in women who just talk to him.

 

[Smidlee]

I did marry someone I met online (I still can't believe I did that) but you got to be realistic and fair, the person you are talking to isn't the same one you have created in your mind. To really know someone takes a life time.

 

[Whomp]

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