A noble way to look at it, and inspirational too. If that's how everyone viewed pride in their culture then I'd have much less of an issue with it. But it's simply far too easy to cross the line and start saying that your group is better than mine, or vice versa. Let's face it, when we compare differences in the way others do things, we will judge (just look at democratic government vs iron-handed technocracy for example). And when we judge, it's all too often turns into something ugly. That's what turns me off.
Why must it be "The Americans landed on the moon"? Why can't be it "Mankind made it to the moon"? Yes, Americans were the first to do so, and it's not just Americans who should be proud. All humanity should be proud. But what do we get? Russians fighting with them, and now the Chinese and Indians want in on the picture.
Yeah, I understand there's a fine line between taking pride in our differences and becoming antagonistic over them, but what I'm trying to say is that I do not think, historically, the concept of national pride developed
as a means of comparison. It's simply not part of that paradigm, and as the concept developed into something that involved knocking down other peoples' sand-castles, we see how nationalism and what it engenders are a wholly fictional imposition. People of lower classes from different nations experience this sort of eye-opening from time to time, in such a way as to suggest the notion of its artificiality; we've all heard the tale of the Christian and the Muslim having a beer or something, and talking about things that are mutual between them. I think it's self-evident that class divides people more than race, and nationalism is merely a tool of the very powerful to stay that way.
Conceptually there is no difference between "America landed on the Moon" and "Humanity landed on the Moon" except a thin veneer of some superficial categorization. But what group people identify themselves as, and how they come to conceptualize of themselves as existing as a member of that group, are integral to the development of this concept of pride, and if we were to choose "Humanity landed on the Moon" it'd be the same brand of exceptionalism, albeit much broader, in the (somewhat spurious) sense that it wasn't "Dolphins landed on the Moon." Suffice to say that few Americans think of themselves as human
as opposed to American, and if you were to ask an American what they thought of themselves I think it's a rare person indeed who would start by clarifying "human." It's just not part of the gestalt awareness.
So when I say I feel proud of America, my meaning is that I conceive of myself as American first, human second (it would take a degree of consciousness on my part to respond to the earlier identification question with "human," which is why I'm not going to be disingenuous and say that I am post-national in any way, shape, or form) and feel, in a sense, good to be carrying that legacy forward with me. But in truth it does not matter if it was an American or a Soviet to the moon first, as human history has a tendency of working these things out.
I'm not sure if it's clear from these few sentences, but sometimes I'm just very, very frustrated with how we humans are. And I should know. I'm trying very hard to move away from all this judging, but it's comes so... So... Naturally...
Oh, really? Humans are great. Some of my best friends are human.