need girl advice

[The Yankee]

Then duly declare that you would rather swim in weasel droppings than be her boyfriend.

What if she calls your bluff on that?

In all seriousness, just say you don't feel the same way. It could be candy-coated, but making up dumb excuses is not the way to go.

 

[Kyriakos]

No, Hentai is possibly the most stupid "fetish" invented, to satisfy the obviusly vast audience of perverts interested in cartoon girls whose eyes have been widened to the size of fists, in skimpy clothing who have unsightly things done to them by tentacles.

Nonconformist: you are the hero of the poor hentai girls, who will save them from all the perverts
Hentai rule, simply because most hentai girls have extraordinarily drawn female bodies. Erotic art is something that has existed since antiquity, and so has art with erotic themes or sub-themes, as in many plays by Aristophanes.

 

[Bluemofia]

I thought he wanted to stay friends with her?

No, he wants to tell her to shoo, and stop bothering him.

 

[Mise]

Nah I don't think. Everything depends on how you say it, and how you look her in the eyes when you do it.

And it can be true. A girl can be great and beautifull but just not for you.

I guess......

But if a girl said that to me I'd really wonder what's so terribly wrong with me that my awesome personality and dazzling looks couldn't even overcome

A straight forward "Sorry, I'm not really interested. Lets just be friends" is a good one!
Or you can take the approach of actively making her a platonic friend. Tell her things like "Wow, that girl over there is hot, should i go say hi?" and "Do you know _____? I was thinking about asking her out...". Subtle, but it lets her know you're not thinking about her in the same way.

You know it's really not that subtle.

About as subtle as an elephant.

 

[pris]

dont tell her anything

Just string her along as your backup or dont talk to her any more

 

[pris]

I had a previos girlfriend (before i got the ball and chain) I had only been seeing her for a couple of weeks and then blam:

she wanted to know if i loved her and i told her i didnt

So she freaked and told me to f off and stuff?

Then a week or so later she try to commit suicide by taking a handful of sleep pills

a)what should i do ?
B)should i have gone to the hospital ?

 

[vbraun]

@Original post - Don't talk to her/tell others how she is stupid and other negative things.

 

[RoboPig]

a spin on what trafalgar said, dig your nose while standing up in front of the class, stuff it done your ass, put it in your ears, roll it into a ball and eat it. then pee in your pants and start stripping while screaming Nazi slogans.
@varwnos_ Hentai have got to be the most pornagraphic, bug eyed, Nazi propoganda i have ever seen

 

[Bluemofia]

I had a previos girlfriend (before i got the ball and chain) I had only been seeing her for a couple of weeks and then blam:

she wanted to know if i loved her and i told her i didnt

So she freaked and told me to f off and stuff?

Then a week or so later she try to commit suicide by taking a handful of sleep pills

a)what should i do ?
B)should i have gone to the hospital ?

Wow. That's a sad story. First of all, you should of said that you weren't ready for a serious relationship. Maybe later, but not now. Second of all, you should at least go to the hospital to console her a bit.

 

[Sims2789]

Just say no.

 

[RoboPig]

Just say no.

or just say "no! i wont have unprotected sex with you! especially not in the nudist colony where you live!" in public. it will humliate her.

 

[Shylock]

Be nice to her, then she'll lose interest in you and want as a friend, if that.

 

[Kyriakos]

Hm, well hentai are a bit elitist, but then again its not like you will get to see many girls looking like that in your life irregardless of what you look like, since the point of the hentai universe is to have an imaginary world where all girls look perfect and only want sex etc. Its not exactly high art, but i think that it has a perfect reason for existing

 

[budweiser]

One time on Seinfeld, George intentionaly let his girlfriend see him picking his nose in order to break up with her.

 

[RoboPig]

One time on Seinfeld, George intentionaly let his girlfriend see him picking his nose in order to break up with her.

better if he picked her nose.......

 

[ew0054]

Yeah but then the guy has his ego busted. I don't want to have my ego busted.

 

[SonicX]

There's no need to down someone like that, just stay nice.
"Yea, well, I really like you, but I'm just afraid I can't return the same feelings you seem to have and it wouldn't work out this way ... " and then you give her friendly cheer up hug if she starts crying or looking really sad and say "I'm sorry ... but I better be honnest now, instead of lying, trying and eventually breaking up for that reason after a little while, no ?"

 

[JohnRM]

How do you tell a girl that you're not really into her? I have evaluated the situation and have come to the conclusion that I have the following choices:

A.) Be strightforward and upfront. "I'm not attracted to you, so let's get on with our lives." That would be rude, hurtful, and mean. I certainly don't want to do that.

B.) "It's not you it's me..." and give some excuse as to why it couldn't work out. "My parents say I can't date a democrat."

C.) "Let's just be friends." Probably a more polite letdown than option A.

D.) Of course I could just let her catch me en femme and let her figure out the rest.


Which do you think is best? Any ideas?

A real man would have respect for the lady and go with the first option. Just tell her how you feel. If the truth is that you are cold-hearted bastard that is looking for good looks and money, then say so. The truth is better than anything else we've got.

 

[GWAROWNSU]

i would probably go with the first option... if she gets mad.. o well.. thats her problem not urs ^_^

 

[silver 2039]

Simply ignore her. When a girl asked me out to a dance I simply ignored her. Incidentally she never spoke to me again but meh whatever.....I don't like Korean girls much.