And we're talking about an expansion pack.... as evidenced by this thread, there are a lot of people who really want the Hebrews/Israel in the game (I personally think calling the civ "Hebrews" but including some modern city names works best) and who won't by the expansion pack without it -- such as myself. Far more than say, the number of people who passionately want the Zulus in the game.
Ergo, the only reason why Israel is not included is because there are a lot of people who passionately DON'T want Israel in the game, and will boycott the expansion if Firaxis acknowledges that, yes, the Hebrews/Israel are a civ worthy of respect. That's a passionate, and irrational dislike of the Hebrews/Israel (as evidenced by many of the posters on this thread), enough to create marketing concerns for Firaxis. You don't see anyone passionately arguing against including the Zulus or the Inca (barely a civilization at all -- they lasted maybe 100-150 years).
The reasons for really wanting a civ in the game are obvious -- national or ethnic pride, or historical interest. The reasons for really not wanting a civ in the game are baffling, and -- as shown by this thread -- probably based on hatred.
Can you criticize Israel without disliking Jews (ignoring for the moment that most people here believe the Hebrews better fit the criteria than modern Israel)? Of course -- provided the criticism is rational and fair, and applied equally as to every other state, in much the same way that one might criticize France for caving into unions, or India for not enforcing laws against oppressing the untouchables. But Israel, by and large, isn't criticized rationally... it's attacked for everything it does, far out of proportion to any other state, and without consideration of its concerns.
You provide the perfect example -- stating, specifically, about not "liking" Israel. One can criticize a policy or policies... but many people simply don't "like" Israel, in the sense that they don't believe it should exist. That is an irrational hatred fueled only by hatred of Jews.
And the world is filled with an irrational hatred of Israel that can be explained by nothing but hatred of Jews. Why is it that 30% of UN Resolutions condemn Israel, when there are dozens of corrupt, brutal, genocidal regimes out there (Zimbabwe, North Korea, Sudan, Lybia, Iran, etc.)? Why is it that every action Israel takes in self-defense, no matter how minor, is condemned?