I hate to say it, but this game is probably dead. It is for me at least. It's a shame too because it had such potential to be a good game.
My following comments are not directed at everybody in this game. If you know I'm not talking to you, you should be ok with them. If I happen to hurt your feelings, then chances are they are directed at you.
I really don't care if I hurt anybody's feelings here, but some people are just (fill in the blank) when it comes to playing these games. They show complete lack of respect for the other players. They are lower than (fill in the blank) in my book. But wait you say, "It's just a game!" That's true, it is just a game. But it's also more than that. You have people that are expecting something from you based upon your word. You gave your word to check your e-mail once a day, and if the turn was there, play it and send it along. If you were going to be gone, i.e. out of town on business or vacation, you would post that here and everything would be ok. So that's why I think some of these people (fill in the blank). They give their word to do a simple task, and they can't even do that. Their word is (fill in the blank) and the only thing they are good for in life (fill in some menial task). (I used to do that so if I hurt your feelings, so what.) If you can't be trusted to do one simple task like playing your turn and sending the game along, how can you be trusted to do complex tasks like teach my kids in school, police the highways in your patrol car, sell medicine at a pharmacy, or any other job that (fill in the blank). The answer is, you can't. You should feel embarassed if you signed up to play this game and don't check your e-mail, go out of town without giving the rest of us notice, or are simply too lazy to play your turn. Hey, if you are busy with work because the boss is riding your back, or if you are busy with school because finals are coming up, or if you are taking a vacation with the family now that the kids are out of school, no problem. Just let us know. And going back to the arguement of "It's just a game!" Well if it just a game, then play it. And if you don't want to play it, retire your civ and let the rest of us play.
I will get down from my soapbox now and play my other PBEMs with (fill in the blank) than there are in this game.