Prom Dilemma

[Bluemofia]

that would be awesome to pull off indeed.

"yeah, I'll go to the prom with you... but only if I can also go with THESE two!"

And fairly awkward.

 

[History_Buff]

Last time I asked out a girl, it got called off because of "her mom" said she had to clean house. Yah..right....

Anyway, the only explantion for the secret is treat them like a lady, how hard can that be? They are people too.

Well I suppose I better go to prom, but who can I go with, and no I can't take all 3, school wont allow it

The 1st girl is heavier, very paled skin and is a little annoying, not even close to being hot...

The 2nd girl is skinny, never talked to her once until she asked me to prom, she ain't hot, but no butt ugly

The 3rd girl is skinny, I guess, not chubby though. she aint hot,

I dont know, the only thing im worried about is the 1st girl might come up to me and say why didnt you go with me?!?!

I hate dilemmas..

And If I didnt go to prom, people in my class who didnt go are going to have there own party as of now, but probably wont happen....

If attractiveness isn't an immediately decisive factor, just go with whichever one is the most fun. As for what to tell girl #1, I can't help you, as I tend to royally **** that **** up.

 

[truckingpete]

If attractiveness isn't an immediately decisive factor, just go with whichever one is the most fun. As for what to tell girl #1, I can't help you, as I tend to royally **** that **** up.

Well I asked a friend of mine and he said go with the first girl because she is more fun then the other 2. Which I agree....which would be better for me cuz she asked me 1st....the thing is she is annoying sometimes.....

 

[West 36]

the thing is she is annoying sometimes.....

Welcome to the world of women, my dear friend.

 

[GenMarshall]

Anyway, the only explantion for the secret is treat them like a lady, how hard can that be? They are people too.

I do the same thing and I dont see any results!
Conclusion, ALL women are eather married or already have Boyfriends!

 

[Prince_Imrahil]

Lets ask the few Women on this forum...

 

[Bluemofia]

I do the same thing and I dont see any results!
Conclusion, ALL women are eather married or already have Boyfriends!

That's what I assume nowadays in RL. I don't bother to make the first move. I let them do it.

 

[Nylan]

First move worked for me

 

[Prince_Imrahil]

They want first moves.

 

[Bluemofia]

First move worked for me

Due to my Charisma level being close to level 0, and my Uber nerdness, the first move for me has always failed.

HOW DO PEOPLE DO IT?

 

[GenMarshall]

That's what I assume nowadays in RL. I don't bother to make the first move. I let them do it.

Thats what I have been doing for YEARS and that did not worked eather!

Conclusion, I'm not attractive to members of the other sex. Which is why I consider myself ugly.

 

[Nylan]

Doesn't take charisma

it takes you being you and a woman who can appreciate who you are

if you have to fake it you *might* find a lasting relationship, but odds are you won't last as long as if you were just yourself the whole time.

 

[Prince_Imrahil]

Pretend shes your sister?

 

[Bluemofia]

Doesn't take charisma

it takes you being you and a woman who can appreciate who you are

if you have to fake it you *might* find a lasting relationship, but odds are you won't last as long as if you were just yourself the whole time.

Isn't that by definition letting them make the 1st move? Waiting for them to appreciate you for who you are?

 

[Nylan]

No

I'm just saying a woman compatible with you will most likely not turn you down. Perhaps they'll make the first move if waiting is part of your character.

I'm just saying being proactive worked for me, and I am in no way charismatic. I just found an amazing girl and she happened to say yes (there's NO way she would have asked me)

 

[Prince_Imrahil]

And your 'first move' mustn't be forced, fake, etc.

 

[GenMarshall]

Pfft, for me to have a woman approach me, I would have to look like a buffed holywood muscle guy!

 

[Prince_Imrahil]

That's why you approach 'em, and just, say hi and go from there.

 

[Nylan]

yep

Try not to be nervous, but some girls might find being nervous "cute".

The worst anyone can do is say no, and it's not as horrible as you might believe (firsthand account here)

 

[GenMarshall]

That's why you approach 'em, and just, say hi and go from there.

Youre talking to a person who is socially inerpt and has been struggling with YEARS of the fear of rejection. No thanks to thoes dang middle schoolers who picked on me and scared me for life