Realms Beyond Emperor: The DSG's

First off, thanks for the opportunity to start a RBE DSGs. It will be fun to have the starting influence.

Anyway, I'll post the start of the game Sunday night the 17th as it's easier for me to play on the weekends. I'll do 40 turns. Roster will be kept to 5 and in this order unless I hear otherwise:

Roster:
Architect
Charis
JaxomCA
Sirian
Arathorn

Map settings will be:

Civ: Carthage
Map: Standard, Continents, 60% Water,
Climate: Wet, Temperate, 4 billion years,
Opponents: Vikings, Ottomans, Spanish, Mongols, Koreans, Celts, Arabs
Victory: Any
Barbarians: Raging
Rules: Regular Deity rules

The reason I picked Carthage is because they have the best UU to defend against barbarians outside of Greece. I also really love the industrious/commercial trait combo. While the vikings were a popular pick, I've personally been playing too much military, expansionist with the mongols so I wanted a break from that start. I'm going with raging because this is a DSG and we all like challenge. We'll see just how good Soren's new and improved barbs are. My current impression is they are actually less effective than before... I wanted 7 opponents so we can see all the new civs in PTW.

Does this sound ok to everyone?
 
I'm okay with playing those settings except for one thing...I got missed from the roster!

Is there not enough room? If so, I understand, if there is, could I pls be slotted in at the end?
 
That sounds ok to me. The barbarians may seem less effective than before but they are much more annoying. They don't go kill themselves on cities but they lurk around, mostly sticking to high grounds. I found myself having to go out and hunt them down, so i don't think the UU will be much help against barbarians.

Oh my! I go at it in between Charis and Sirian! (crack knuckles) I better play my best game ever :)
 
I'm not sure whether they're more dangerous now than before, but they do at least have a rudimentary AI. They won't beeline for your cities or improvements in a suicide hunter-seeker fashion, but rather will be a roaming area-of-effect menace. Leave a city undefended, though, and every barb in the area will run straight at it. I've had the misfortune to lose a frontier town's only defender early on in a massive uprising and every barb that could reach that city on its turn ran straight into it. When I got a replacement defender in that town, the remaining barbs immediately turned away and did something else. In any case, you'll end up with a lot more barbs running around than you would normally expect from that level, but they don't pose as immediate a threat as the old ones did (See RBP1 for what "Restless" barbs look like, I personally swore Charis had set it to Raging).

Maybe one of these days I'll actually play out a Deity game to a win so I can join in on this fun, or maybe not. I just can't apply concepts like prebuilding that I can do in SGs to solo games (I'll have an amusing anecdote on that point when Epic 18 reports come around), and I don't think I'll ever have the focus and attention span necessary. I know that I could hold my own in a Deity SG so long as I'm not called upon to play the first 40, but the DSGs are just about the only forum for Deity SG play, and in order to join you need to have beaten Deity...it's a vicious cycle. Have fun.
 
Architect, I think some of the team wanted to avoid raging -- maybe set to restless?
 
All right, we're getting close!

That looks like a good game setup Architect, thanks for taking charge on that! Previous to taking Carthage I prefered less than Raging, but with 2.3.1 stats the Numidians are the absolute nemesis of barbarians. I would prefer Raging, and would reassure the voter for less barb activity that we'll do just fine with them at that level.

Regarding the other game, I have a thought - make it a Diety game but as RBP2 instead of RBE SG6 with the intention of it also acting as a *qualifying* diety game! Carbon and Arizona-Steve and iirc there were some lurkers who felt ready but hadn't completed a Diety lvl game yet.

It would be a PTW game, and not doctored to make it overly easy, but it wouldn't have an awful start either, and would be on a small map (between tiny and standard) with a few less civs. I would recommend Ottomans or Celts. If we can get four players for this, I'll make the map for you guys, and watch the game, make comments, etc. The requirements to sign up would be a win and comfort on Emperor level, a sense of readiness for Deity, and the ability to avoid "Exploits" as defined on the RB Epics page. Falsfire, you would be in and would probably start the game if you felt comfortable doing so!

Any takers?

:cool:
Charis

-- EDIT - the following was the text of my original post -
and the more I thought about it, the less good an idea me actually playing another one right now sounded...

Regarding another game, we probably do NOT want to do the Mongol or Viking one, as several of the RBE DSG5 folks wanted in on that. That leaves Asian rumble as a good option - or actually, an Arab one which Arathorn didn't want to do. That would be a Middle East Rumble :p

Can I confirm who would be interested in such a game?
Falsfire for sure, Itaeen (?), and Arizona Steve - are you 'ready' yet?! (If not we need a special tiny map you vs one other civ qualifying Deity game map for you and Carbon!!) I'm in serious doubt myself, not because of time now, but because of a feast when later two diety games get nasty, when an 'infantry' game hits warfare vs tanks or mechs :ar15: , and with upcoming Epics. So if there were enough interest without me that would be good, and I would recommend Celts or Spanish, or... do a 'mirror' of RBE SG5 with Carthage in your own thread.

So please chime in and spare me a painful future feast! :splat:
Who wants to do SG5B or some other game?
 
Comments:

- Architect's set-up looks OK. It looks more "builder" than I've been in the mood lately, but it might well give us a chance to experiment a bit in-depth with PTW. I would request 30 turns, not 40, to open, as I prefer lots of handing-off in an SG.

- I think Charis and I are both kinda itching for a down-and-dirty fight-em-hard, get our techs by swordpoint not diplomacy kinda game. I'm with him, though, in that starting two deity games at the same time gives a ridiculously high chance of overfeast, which I know I need to avoid and I want Charis to avoid, too, because I don't want him disappearing again! :) With that in mind, I propose starting a deity-level PTW game right after Christmas, with a more militaristic bent (Mongols, Vikings, or Arabs). That should give RBE5 a chance to be mid-stream/late-game and it should hopefully finish up before the war-like game becomes too time-intensive.

I would be very happy to run this as as LotR 5 and not as an RBE, so that "non-qualified" (emphasis on quotes) players could compete. At the very least, spots for Iteean and falsfire would be guaranteed (if they want them). C_C would make 5, but I'm getting ahead of myself here.

- I feel bad about falsfire (and Iteean) not getting into the 4/5 slot. I'm the one who made the first list for 5 and I just read and recorded names of people who looked interested. I had no intentions of leaving anyone out. In the interest of group community, I would be willing to forego my spot in RBE5, so that falsfire can play, if that's so desired. [If that happens, I will probably try to form LotR5 essentially immediately, with Iteean (if he's interested), C_C (ditto), and maybe A_S or some other interested individual. Certainly not a "training game" but a 'qualifier' if people want.]

- While the idea of a "qualifier" game is appealing, I don't like the idea of running two starts concurrently. I like reading what everybody else is doing *while* they're doing it (in most cases) and seeing the mirror thread and knowing I can't read it would be painful.

Arathorn
 
Just wanted to check in here. I'm still interested in playing a deity game, and there's no hard feelings about being left out. Though I've not played in an SG before, I think 4 or 5 players just seems "better" somehow. I'll be following both games with interest.

I've started a Deity game as the Spanish to get a little feel for PTW. (Is it me or did the map generator suddenly get a sense of humor?)

As for game ideas, I've seen several good ones floating around here, and I'm not terribly picky about the civ, landmass, barbarians, etc. My single player games actually tend to be random settings for pretty much everything. I like not knowing what is coming at me.

Guess I'll just practice and bide my time. :)

Edit: Ok I just saw a few posts about another (or two other?) possible games in this thread. Guess I'm confused about that. I'll just volunteer for any game that shows up and needs a player, to make it simple! :lol:


- Iteean
 
Checking in as well...

I like Charis' suggestions. Personally, I believe that I should qualify for the DSGs on my own merits and not have my :smoke: supported by other players. Having said that, LK34 is heading toward domination so I'd love to play in RBP2 although I wouldn't regard it as a "true" DSG qualifying game.

I guess I'm just a perfectionist :p

If Charis wants to set up that player vs 1 AI civ map, I'll see what I can do with that :)

As for my efforts so far, I've only played one Emporer game recently where my position was undeniably won before the Middle Ages were over. I find that Deity has it's own unique set of problems, not least of which is trying to keep up in tech while supporting enough military (in Republic) to avoid getting stomped on by the AI.
 
Woo. Glad to see some talk of RBE qualifying games and resolving my personal Catch-22. I'd rather qualify via SG than with a 1 on 1 map personally, and if we were to pick a civ for a small Deity map the Ottomans sound like a fantastic idea since their cav can match up successfully versus rifles and Industrious is my personal crutch civ trait (and i'm not afraid to admit it :p, though I'm learning to live without it). My only concern would be to have at least one RBE-qualified person to anchor the roster.

I guess I'm also a bit confused like Iteean as to exactly which games are actually being proposed and who is being expected to join them. So I'd like to issue a blanket statement that I'm in favor of these ideas in general and I'd like to be included in one of these games that don't require a confirmed Deity win to join, but one plus RBP1 is about all I am willing to commit myself to.
 
Firstly, to clarify, I do not have any hard feelings about not making RBE5. When I first posted in this thread my potential interest, it was just that, potential, as I hadn't yet wrapped up my epic 17 game and didn't know if I'd have enough time between epics 17, 18a, 18b, and RBP1.

Now I'm finished 17 and well into 18a, plus one of my night school classes has finished (final exam was yesterday...phew that's the biggest load of stress relieved)

So let this be my official declaration of interest, I don't want to take Arathorn's spot in RBE5, as I see it he earned it by posting a more solid interest post before me. If there is to be a RBE6 or RBP2, I'm definately in, and if you guyz decide to do a qualifier SG instead of another actual RBE, I'll consider taking the start if I'm the only actual qualified player in the bunch. It probably won't be as slick a start as those who've played 2 or 3 previous RBE's can do...but I'll do my best. :crazyeye:

I'd like to think I played epic 17 damn well, I'm proud of a few accomplishments in it which I can't get into before report day, but let's just say I'm really happy with two particular 'things' I did in that game.
 
I feel bad about falsfire (and Iteean) not getting into the 4/5 slot.

Why? SG's tend to do best with 4 or 5 players: better player involvement, fewer dropouts, faster rounds. Players understand that, as they've shown in this thread.

More games can always be started, when there are more players wanting to play. Charis's idea of a deity game outside the series sounds good because it offers a better chance to fill a third game.


I would be very happy to run this as as LotR 5 and not as an RBE, so that "non-qualified" (emphasis on quotes) players could compete.

Please leave off the politicking, Arathorn.

The RBE qualifications are fair, nonjudgemental, and wholly objective. While exclusionary, elitism is not the point. There are qualifications to get a drivers license, to gain admittance to high school or university, and to practice a multitude of professions. In asking players to establish (not just assert) their readiness for Deity play, many things are gained, among them a sense of fraternity. People tend to value things they have to earn, and that promotes a higher commitment level to the events.

I've played in dozens of SG's and seen many disintegrate. That is a fate worth working to avoid. SG's particularly tend to start falling apart if the going gets rough, as it is apt to do at Deity. Those who have won a deity game have definitely "seen the elephant" and will be much less likely to panic or lose heart while playing from behind -- sometimes from way behind. I know you understand this, so why the tension?


In the interest of group community, I would be willing to forego my spot in RBE5, so that falsfire can play, if that's so desired.

That's not desired by me. I'm all for working out agreeable arrangements, trying to accomodate everybody's interests, but once plans are decided and rosters formed, I'm not in favor of renegotiating. Now whether the roster comes first, the game settings to be decided last, or the game settings chosen then the roster formed up, those are both workable. We had some of both here, dividing the players up between game versions.

You offering to give up your spot is generous, but it also forces another round of negotiating and decision-making. I happen to believe that a ship needs a captain, and that so does an SG. If there is a leader, there is somebody to make final decisions and to steer the helm. You, Charis, LK, and I are all accustomed to being captain. We have each led very successful, entertaining games. We each also have some difficulty giving up the helm, or at least tend to do so with reservations and conditions.

I thought I had met your conditions, but now you're raising more of them and tossing uncertainty into the mix. Now we've got no less than four captains in one game, without a consensus. You took charge, narrowed the options down, then handed off control to Architect. Charis affirmed your choice to do that and Architect is executing the consolidate-and-lead role you handed him, and already you are objecting to his decisions. This wagon feels like it is rolling downhill without a driver.

I'm ready to apply the brake. This game needs a captain, and until we all agree on one, it's not going forward. I don't have a need to be in charge. I've played many an SG with somebody else at the helm. When you've been in charge and run your own games, they come out fine, but this... is too chaotic. My hope that we'd go through the game with the hatchet buried is already gone. You are not only nitpicking the RBE rules, but also Architect's decisions, after YOU told him to run with the game start. I do want you to play with us, but now it will be on the condition that you let Architect be the captain. More negotiations to come to consensus on what to play is fine, but if at the end there are still disagreements, Architect will resolve them. If you're fine with that, then we have a process to reach accord. If not, if you need to be in charge to be comfortable, then that's what you should do -- in your own game -- and we'll play with four or we'll bring in an alternate.


Architect's set-up looks OK. It looks more "builder" than I've been in the mood lately

60% water is a bit "more builder" than average. That's the only thing "builder" about his listed settings. Builder games are those with more land per civ than average, for the given map size. All 60% water games are on the builder side unless more than the default max civs for the map size are inserted. Games with 80% are likewise cramped unless the game is played with less than the max number of civs. Combine 60% water with fewer than average civs and you have a true Builders Game, ala RBE1.

What makes such land-to-civ ratios "builder" games is that with so much more land available via settlers, there is more to gain by pushing expansion than pushing military, because while you fight one civ, the two of you get hurt while the rest grab the land. You can still do as much warfare in a builder game as any other kind of game, just that it comes later, because it takes you longer to grab, fill out and consolidate your share of the land.

The land ratio is not a dictator on war vs peace. That is a choice. You can make the war choice in any situation. You can't make the peace choice and succeed if you don't get enough lands in the grab phase, but RBE2 shows about how much land you need to eke out a win, and it's not that much. Peace is a viable option in all but the worst starting situations.

I don't want to replay RBE2, at least not in this game. That doesn't mean I want a builder game. Trust me, I got my fill of deity builder game for the time being in RBE1 and Epic 17. I want middle of the road, and a warmonger approach is fine. I did include China in the list of industrious civs on my Most Preferred list. China is the only original civ for which I have zero Hall of Fame entries. I have been in many Chinese games, but for a variety of reasons none have been concluded. China was just played, but I don't think anyone from that game is on this roster. They're in RBE4. The industrious trait aids warmaking: more roads, rapid tile improvements, get by to some extent with slaves, etc. In the end, though, I don't care too much about what civ we play, as what civs we play against.

Raging barbs are fine, IF we forego the 60% water and go with 70%. I've played a little PtW solo now, enough to see that the barbs aren't supermen. Deity barbs are a whole other breed than on lower settings, though. Nobody who played Epic Four will ever view them the same again. Get caught with a lot of land around you, and no AI's nearby... 60% land is the right choice if we WANT to deal with endless raging hordes. Their new AI would make a builder game with high barbs play very differently from the no barb variety, but I'd rather save that for later.


I do want you to play, Arathorn. Your views about the settings or the strategy aren't the problem. It was that you gave the green light too soon, and ineffectively, leading to confusion. We're NOT ready, even now, to start. With so much open in PtW and each of us wanting to explore different things, there is less consensus now about what to play than I've ever seen for an SG.

Normally, I direct the organization, obtain consensus quickly, then form up teams and get things rolling. Sometimes I have a vision for the game and I make most of the decisions (RBE1). Sometimes I work to keep a low profile and only help to enable others who have a vision carry it out (RBE4). Sometimes we run the game settings and scenario by committee (RBE2), and sometimes I just get out of the way (RBE3). In each instance, though, I make sure not to allow the process to wander, so as to avoid players reaching this state:

I guess I'm also a bit confused like Iteean as to exactly which games are actually being proposed and who is being expected to join them. - Carbon Copy

You, Arathorn, are the only player in the SG community to have expressed a public vote of "no confidence" in my leadership. When you expressed an interest in an RBE game, I decided that I would take a step back, try to avoid provoking you, meet all your concerns, and make every effort to move on with a clean slate. I was extending a spirit of reconciliation and looking for the same in return. Instead, you've launched a barb of sarcasm at the RBE rules, taken charge of the roster and settings for this game but only produced confusion, and it seems to me you've made effort to circumnavigate around me. Those results and actions on your part lead me to conclude that this game isn't going to go forward without our prior getting in the way. I tried, but meeting your concerns and being welcoming to you are not my only responsibilities. So... let's try to reach an understanding.

First of all, you wouldn't go into an LK game, ignore Lee, make arrangements for the settings and terms, than hand the game off to a third party arbitrarily. (Would you?) And if you did so, that would produce confusion. Why? Some would be agreeable to your ideas. Some would defer to Lee out of confidence in his leadership through past games. Some wouldn't care either way, just wanting to get a game going. And all of these folks would be confused as to who's in charge.

Lee's games were going when I got here. I played in one almost immediately and I had a good time, but the difficulty was more tame than I preferred. Rather than try to take over his series, I ran my own games (under Charis's RBD series, mostly). You did the same: rather than try to take over RBD, you started your own games, with even higher difficulty than RBD.

LK is Lee's series, RBD and RBP are Charis's series, and LOTR is your series. Well, the fact is, RBE is my series. I came up with the vision for it and provided the canvas. The series also belongs to the players, who are wholly responsible for painting the results. I provide the studio, they make the art. The art that has resulted is generating a lot of interest and excitement.

You happen to be a talented painter, and we're all interested in seeing what you'd paint on an RBE PTW canvas. I made a decision when you expressed interest in RBE that I would not exert my leadership, as a show of good faith. I'd wait and see what you wanted, even let you take charge of the game. But it is not working. You don't have the authority that you do in a LOTR game to make the final decisions, and you did not choose to try to include me in the arrangement, but more to work around me. The moment I expressed some of my preferences, other players started to account for them in the group decision and you're immediately showing discomfort and talking about bailing to go run a LOTR game instead.

Help me out, here. I want this to work. If you honestly want or need to be in control, that's fine. You run a good game, and no reason not to run LOTR5 in cooperation with RBE5 to "share" the players in search of some gaming. I'd prefer that not turn hostile, as forcing players to start "choosing sides" is no fun for them. On the other hand, if you want to be part of the RBE gaming, you are welcome here only if you leave the politicking and power struggles at the door. If you are not comfortable with me or my leadership, or with the confidence and loyalty others show for me, best for all that we come to that conclusion quickly.

In terms of actual gaming, what do you want? Offer us clarity. I'm stepping in to take charge of organizing the roster for RBE5, as it is my responsibility to resolve series-wide issues. If you are good with that, the roster is already set (with five) and we can finish negotiations on settings. Once that is done, we'll go with your idea to play under Architect as captain and have him generate the start and play the first round. You don't have to feel obliged to run LOTR5 for others -- Charis had the vision for another game and can organize it as an RBP -- so this comes down to what you, personally, want, for your own gaming.


- Sirian
 
Oh man....

I clearly don't understand where all this is coming from or going but I'd like to start a new game Sunday night. I'm a 32 year old father of 3 who has a very full personal and professional life. Playing a SG is the best way for me to get the most out of my favorite game of all time while balancing everything else that is going on in my life.

I am so very excited to be playing a game with Sirian, Charis, and Arathorn (no offense JaxomCA I just have never seen you before) because I've read game descriptions, played with in the past, or followed their exploits even in the Diablo community. I consider all the RBE players to be the best civ3 players in the world and for me to be even able to stand next to them with my play is something to be proud of. I try not to do anything in my life half-ass civ included.

I'm the top technical leader in a 2 billion dollar company so I'm not afraid of leading this group through a SG. I was not concerned about the comments of the other players derailing my efforts. I was just waiting for everyone to respond and then I was going to consider everyone's opinion and make my final decision on the direction of the game. I feel like if I would have responded sooner we might have avoided this little confrontation. I'm sorry about that.

Sirian, I respect your desire to control the ebb and flow of this series. I completely agree you should have the final say on series wide matters. Like I already said, I'd like to start a new game Sunday and I propose we leave the roster as is and if you and Arathorn can't work out your differences by his turn we'll just address the issue then.

I want you both in this game because of your different perspectives and opinions.
 
Oh boy, I wondered how long it would be before some friction would take place between Sirian and Arathorn. I also knew that Sirian would draw some fire from *somebody* at some stage about the deity qualifier rules. Particularly since there are practically no other deity SGs on the board.

For what it's worth, I will add in my two cents. Sometimes an outsiders perspective can help :).

I'll start with a little history about myself. For a long while, I was unable to play Civ III due to having a crappy computer. And I'd actually picked up Civ 2 a couple of months before Civ 3 came out and really enjoyed that. Circumstances changed, and I was able to play Civ 3.

Having read most of the RBD games at that stage, I decided to leap headfirst into signups. I also had a concept of a game that I wanted to play at that time. So I leaped headfirst into starting up a game with a relatively untested mod, and no experience at the helm.

Immediately I copped a lot of criticism from certain players (due to my weedy moves and my arrogant attitude). So I took a step back, laid relatively low for a while, and changed my reputation and attitude. Eventually it culminated in RBD23, which in turn had a large influence on many of the rules in the highly successful epics.

But in the early days I took criticism too personally, which is something I regret. I also had to realise what people, particularly Sirian, were trying to say. No offense Sirian, but sometimes your well meaning constructive criticism comes across as harsh. It also seems to me that you tend to read more into things than sometimes exists. It seems to me that this triggers certain people. Certain people being Arathorn in this case.

While I do not wish to put words in the mouth of Arathorn, I do believe that what he was saying were merely suggestions in most cases. The points you picked up on to me read more like points partially made in jest. Particularly this quote:

"I would be very happy to run this as as LotR 5 and not as an RBE, so that "non-qualified" (emphasis on quotes) players could compete."

I read this as something that meant that certain people, who knew that they were capable of beating deity would get the opportunity to prove themselves. More in collaberation than in opposition to the RBE series.

However, I'm not going to put words into Arathorn's mouth. Perhaps he needs to put some more care into what he posts. I'm just sick of seeing the same old constant sniping at each other that went on in the Epics. It is a game, and it is meant to be fun. We don't want another "Hocus" issue, where one player leaves the community because of another player.

I don't believe I am, but if I'm out of line, say so. But making these debates public leaves them open to public scrutiny. And I for one am tired of seeing them come up time after time.

Peace, Smegged
 
I too was wondering... I had hoped however, that it would have taken longer.

I haven't been around these forums that long (since about June...) and don't know the main members of the RB crew that well either, so perhaps I shouldn't say anything... That said, I have never really learned when to keep my nose out of things...

I have to agree with Smegged's comment ("It also seems to me that you [Sirian] tend to read more into things than sometimes exists."), and I remember thinking something similar around the time when Arathorn took a leave of absence from the RB epics. Sometimes (actually, quite frequently) after reading Sirian's comments (in response to Arathorn's (and some other people's) posts), I would have to go back to the original post and reread it several times to try to determine where the offense was taken (and if, in my opinion, it was meant to offend). Most of the time, I interpreted the comments quite differently, and the rest of the time, took these comments as jests. I feel that words can be very powerful as I am (pretty) sure Sirian feels as well. I think that is why he takes such care in trying to express himself and perhaps because of this, tends to assume that others choose their words with as much care and with explicit forethought as to what connotations their words MAY carry.

About Smegged's comment on LoTR5, I found the "non-qualified" comment a little bit... je ne sais quoi. BUT, at the same time, I too wasn't crazy about the "qualification" requirement. I think that it some requirement is necessary (and personally, I wouldn't know what exactly to propose and am glad I don't have to do it.... Because of this, I have a lot of respect for Sirian and the effort he has put into making these games (and the RB Epics) work (with all the exploits there are, etc.)). The requirement did however, make me really strive towards my first Deity level victory... To me, winning a (basic) Deity level SG is easier than winning a solo Deity game (of course, I guess it also depends on how you set up your game...). However, there are few (if any) Deity level SGs around (I don't believe I have seen any (other than this series) since I began frequently these boards...). I would have really liked the ability to "prove" my ability in a Deity level (or "acceptable" level) SG. This is part of the reason I jumped on the opportunity to play in T-hawks Demi-deity game. In this respect, I think that if Arathorn's comment about running an LoTR5 for "non-qualified" players, was meant to be in collaberation with, rather than in opposition to, the RBE series, it is a great idea. However, I really think that Arathorn made this offer not to comment about the "requirement" but, rather to offer Falsefire and Itean a chance to join a Deity level SG. In truth (and I may be mistaken), I think this offer was made because I think Arathorn felt bad (maybe not the right word... I did however, feel bad that Falsefire wasn't included while I was (and he posted before me...)) that these two players expressed interest in joining a RBE SG but were not included. It certainly seems like there is enough demand for more Deity level SGs... (of course, I don't think that the responsibility for sponsoring all of them should fall to Sirian as they seem to have in the past...)

Anyways, I am starting to ramble... I decided to write something about this because when Arathorn left the RB community, I felt that something was lost. After that, (especially being the new kid on the block and someone who tends to lurk...), I felt a bit afraid to say what I thought/felt. I think others may have felt the same way. Perhaps it is because of the public debates that I felt this way... I am not quite sure how things like this should best be dealt with. Sirian has the unenviable position of being the moderator for this thread and the RB Epics and is therefore often subject to criticism on the rules and suggestions he lays out (everybody hates to be criticized, even if it is constructive criticism). And because he has to deal with a community (and we are members of this community), I can certainly see why the debates regarding exploits, rules, etc. should be public. But, as we can see from experience, this also may lead to the problems experienced in the past.

I hope that things can be worked out to the benefit of everyone. All good medicine,

JMB
 
I don't believe I am, but if I'm out of line, say so.

Out of line, smegged? No. You're within your rights to criticize as much as you please.

Bringing up Hocus... we already have a Hocus situation. Arathorn called me names, flew off the handle in a big tirade and made his grand exit from the Epics. And speaking of Hocus, he was not some random player who I offended. He was somebody who went into that game with a prior grudge against me. I did my share of abrasiveness and did some wrongs in that exchange, and deserved some of the criticism he leveled at me during the game and previously in the Diablo realm, but not all. I hold firm opinions and take stands on the issue of cheats, exploits, and the like, all of which is subjective. I am too controlling, probably my greatest source of conflict. Some folks disagree with me, and some outright dislike me. That I make some enemies, as well as many friends, is just the way the dice fall. My intention has always been to build up positive environments, but some folks read me as elitist, and once somebody sees you that way, it's nigh impossible to change their minds through forum posts alone. And who says you should anyway? If you spend all your time trying to soothe every ruffled feather, there won't be any time left to do productive things. Everybody's worth an effort, but if they won't cut you any benefit of the doubt, why should you bend over backward? You shouldn't. Sometimes getting along is out of your control. It takes two to agree, and... that's just not going to happen all the time.

The moment I showed any sign whatsoever of exerting any influence on the course of the game settings, Arathorn is talking about bailing. Why he's doing that, I don't care. I opened the doors of my house here, invited him in, went considerably out of my way to treat him with every courtesy, and that's not enough. Well, just like that, I'm already ticked at him. I made every effort to keep my head low, avoid conflict, to be nice, to be accomodating and inclusive, to compromise, to avoid any triggers and not push buttons, and he still finds reasons to complain and throw the whole arrangement into uncertainty.

No, I'm definitely not happy with that at all. That's completely intolerable to me.


Did you see my replies to Arathorn in his recent visits at the Epics forum? I tried to be nice, and he shunned me completely. Go back and look. He said not one word to me in any post at any time. Given his blowup and the rage he showed, ignoring me there since, ignoring me here as much as possible, and his demand to have his way here in the RBE game over the scroll ahead issue, it all adds up to clear evidence, in my opinion, that he is carrying a grudge. I've gone the distance here to resolve that, to find a fresh start, but if he insists on carrying on the grudge, I CANNOT go on and on with my guard down. I gave it my best, but now too much time has passed without enough of a return effort. My guard has gone back up and Arathorn is once again in the position of adversary.

His request to avoid the scroll-ahead in the RBE game is a continuation of his direct dig at me over the Epics rules. He directly accused me of corruption, of slanting all the rules to my personal bias and into my favor. Did you miss that, smegged? The insistence that he had to have THAT rule break his way or he wouldn't play in RBE was within his rights, but it was also a clear statement from him that he considered the dispute unresolved. I took that in stride. Giving in to that without renewing the debate right then and there was an effort on my part. That was a concession. That was a very big, LARGE, significant concession. Including Arathorn was more important to me than being right or being perceived as right. No credit to me on that from you, though. No recognition in your post that I made any effort whatsoever to keep the peace and make this work out without a confrontation.


Like with starting in on the Civ3 mods, SG's, and strategizing, you're here leaping before you look once again, smegged. Aren't you? Do you know what you are doing here? What consequences might result? Have you thought this through? Done your homework?

You and I played Diablo together. Your computer had an issue that caused severe lag. I did voice some complaint about the lag, but you saw what it was like with your friend on LAN. As much annoyance as that created, I tolerated the lag and did not make a continual issue out of it. I went to some length to hook up with you, as you did with me. A shaky arrangement on all fronts, but worth it. We had laughs, we had fun times. Was my critique of your gameplay there ever harsh? Did I ever "read too much" into anything you said, or take offense at imagined slights? Was I a sour, humorless soul in search of conflicts, hard to get along with? Nobody else, anywhere, knows a lick about what went on in those games. But you do.

That you are a friend criticizing my behavior like this adds extra weight to the words you threw to Arathorn's cause. And make no mistake, you did choose sides here. I consider your post another vote of no confidence.


I also knew that Sirian would draw some fire from *somebody* at some stage about the deity qualifier rules.

They're that controversial? Fine. I wasn't aware that any folks resented these rules or resented me for sticking to them. Feel free to change or discard them now. Whatever works best.


I'm just sick of seeing the same old constant sniping at each other

Let me tell you something. The sniping has taken a significant toll on me. You're sick of seeing it? Try it from the receiving end, as opposed to the observer seat.

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I've been involved in fan support of internet gaming communities for seven years now, across more than half a dozen games. I'm a creative guy, a writer, with a talent for assembling a great gaming experience. Here's a letter I got TODAY from an old acquaintance I haven't seen in years:
Hey Sirian,

(Ret.) Ranger Intrepid here. Don't know if you even remember me, but we
were banging around in the mines together years ago on DOS Kali, along with
KoolBear and Cemada and Azeroth and OneEye. I was going over the Guardian
rules and found your website (nice).

I'm flying under Bold Deceiver in D3, these days; also {DPA} Bold. If you
see me in a game let me know who you are . . . assuming you're still flying.

Hope all is well. Nice to see your work.

Joe Catmull
Intrepid, yeah I remember him. Nice guy. Our interaction goes back all the way to the first community I founded/led. They're still around. I'm not. I quit "flying" for keeps about two years ago. I quit that particular group well over six years ago, now, though. Burnout. My first group venture, amazingly I got a lot right. They refined and honed the points over the years, and I can't take credit for any of that or even for the group's endurance. It takes a LOT of work to keep any group of people together for any span of time, and I lost it and bailed on them almost right at the start. They still steer by all the fundamentals I laid out for them, though, so there was apparently a lot of value and integrity to the system I devised and the original examples I provided. If I hadn't done that work, tens of thousands of collective gaming hours (yes that many) would never have happened, or would have taken some other less positive form.

I don't think about that legacy often. It also has its painful side. I suffered a number of snipings during that venture, too. Descent was a competitive game. Bad sportsmanship ruined the experience for me, so I worked rather hard to create an environment with a minimal of that. We actually succeeded, but... minimal was still more than I could tolerate, and I suffered an enormous amount of personal stress over a few players, whom I much liked otherwise, who simply could not control their tempers when they weren't winning. These folks were adversaries to my cause, but I lacked the grit to choose the cause over them, so the problems they created kept piling up and up. I only lasted four months, half of that the organizational period. My star burned brightly there, and faded just as quickly.

There are things in life worth working for, worth fighting to preserve. For me, these include games and gaming groups and communities. There are not many things worth dying for, however. Short of that, everything worth your time has some threshold of cost that is too high. Something breaks, and then things change. Then it's not worth the cost any more, and time to cut losses.

The highs are worthy. I have had many gaming moments akin to the glory of RBE2. There are a lot of nice folks playing games. Most of them have a few rough edges in some form, a few don't. And a few, like me, have a lot of rough edges. There are many more who appreciate my efforts than those who do not. There is a limit, however, on the effect they can have. It only gets but so good. A word of thanks, a shared moment of joy, a brief sense of coming together in common cause. The down side has no such limits. The negative effects can become wholly destructive, even threaten to consume you. There are places where I could go back to where 90% of the people would be overjoyed to see me, places I would never consider visiting again. The other 10%, the ones who don't care to see me or carry some grievance, would make the cost too high. I have yet to find a solution to this dilemma. I keep trying new ideas, but there is a certain lack of renewal of my resources when it comes to these ventures. It's almost like I have a set of personal hit points, and there are no healing potions. Enough sniping, enough combat, and down I go. Knowing this, one might think I'd work harder to avoid getting into scrapes, but that too has its costs, and I like them even less.

The larger the group, the harder and more costly it is to manage. Each extra person is one more set of needs to try to meet, as well as one more potentially unhappy customer. My approach to try to grease the squeaky wheels, rather than remove them, does work out sometimes. I don't tend to run things conservatively, though: to prudently limit the size of groups I try to manage or lead. As a gamer, I skirt the edges, take on big challenges. Well, I'm like that all around. I go for the bold approach, and inevitably I bite off way more than I can handle. Enjoy the ride while it lasts, folks. I don't ever plant permanant roots. There will always be somewhere else to go, some new mountain to climb, another chance to try to create something without any of the tarnish to it. That may be a vain pursuit, a lost cause, but I am still minded to chase it.

Getting support and encouragement is vital. Every single criticism imposes a cost. The costs might be worth it, if the criticism is both valid and leads to productive changes in policy. Few criticisms meet that criterium.

The last straw is no more responsible for the break than the first, or any of the ones between. If you don't want the camel's back to break, however, and you don't know how many straws it will bear, you can't afford to take your chances. Some things will not be repairable once they crack.


Arathorn's wisecrack about the epics being a monarchy still rattles my cage. That's the one I have not forgiven him for, perhaps to my detriment. That one hurt, and the hurt was compounded greatly by the total (TOTAL) lack of support/defense I got from the community on that point of attack. I did get support from Griselda and Sulla (many thanks, guys) on the matter of my position as rules arbiter for the Epics, but I got none from anybody in regard to Arathorn's personal shots. The monarchy quip was a cheap shot on his part, one I faced down and refuted with an array of evidence, and I faced it alone. I don't blame anybody for not getting involved; it would have cost them something, for sure, as it was costing me. I admit that I treated him as an adversary thereafter, and have used that to justify my hostility. Arathorn has used his belief in my "corruption" to justify his hostility. We are both sure we are on the side of right. Well, who knows. Something got us started somewhere, and the first slight was either real or imagined. Whether he had a true intent to make peace, or even just to observe a cease fire, I don't know. It doesn't matter. I spent all (all) of my remaining capital on the effort here to end the confusion and uncertainty quickly. I regret that you guys did not grant him the full opportunity to choose. He might have chosen peace. It was within his power to do so, this might still have been resolved. Only he could do that, though. Now he will not get the chance.

Not his fault, not yours, but mine. All mine. I needed (NEEDED) this conflict to evaporate quickly, without any further cost to me. It has not, and I choose now to withdraw from the effort. I have no more to give to try to work out solution for this issue, nor any other SG issue. What reserves I have left I must consolidate, to avoid bowing out of everything Civ III in which I am involved. I will not play in this game. I relinquish all my responsibility to, and obligations to, the RBE franchise. My apology to all who feel let down, betrayed, sad, guilty, unhappy, or otherwise have their day rained on by my choice. No hard feelings, just a cost-benefit analysis that has gone into the red for me personally. I wish you all the best. Do as you please with the DSG infrastructure. I'll see most of you around at RB.


- Sirian
 
"I choose now to withdraw from the effort"

I for one am very sorry to see you leave. I very much enjoyed your commentary, friendship, analysis and input into the SGs I've played with you. I also enjoyed our Diablo sessions (while they lasted), even though they were plagued with a heap of time/latency issues. Who could forget the Black Death issue. I know they take hitpoints off you if they hit you! All monsters do that :P.

I particularly appreciate all the effort you put into the Epics and the SGs that you commanded. They were wonderful and entertaining. You were the organiser of these events and did a wonderful job of setting the rules and environment. Your rules for DSG qualification I believe are fair, and I followed them, but there will always be those who question authority and dislike such black and white laws about things (hence my comment about taking flack about the DSG qualification rules).

I also feel that more of an explanation is in order. My previous post was written to address your reaction to Arathorn's last post. I did feel that you went too far with those comments. I still do. I do not feel that you went too far at any other point.... at least not in your dealings at the RB forums. It was an issue between you and Arathorn. And Arathorn was in the wrong (IMO). I did not interject because I felt like I had nothing constructive to add. I interjected this time because I felt like I DID have something constructive to add. This was obviously not the case. In effect I have compounded to create another "Hocus" issue (by the way, I was not laying any blame on either person in that case... I knew nothing about it other than the fact that you two could not get on and he resigned from one of the very first games), with you leaving the community. This was the very thing I was trying to avoid. My post was not a vote of no confidence, but a voice of disagreement with the last post you made.

"The path to hell is paved with good intentions". In this case, for me it was. I was trying to act as a mediator, to help nip this in the bud before it grew into anything larger. Instead I added fuel to the fire. For that I apologise. I however, can only be responsible for my own actions and words. As a general observation I have noted that you do tend to blow things out of proportion in some situations (IMO). But I can understand your feelings on this matter, and respect the fact that you can bow out with dignity, rather than leaving in a fit of rage.

If my post was the straw that broke the camel's back, then I'm sorry. But the camel's back was going to break sooner or later. Nobody is perfect, nobody can withstand constant criticism and nobody can be expected to. I definately underestimated how much Arathorn's sudden abandonment of the Epics effected you. And you are right, I'm sick of seeing the constant battling between you two, which means you both must be even more sick of it. I will leave it at that. I'll make no more comments that can sour your experience any further. Because, after all, it is only a game. Emotional energy can be better expended on other things.

Peace, Smegged
 
Architect: No offense taken, I understand. And your post reflects my thoughts on the subject. Let the game begin, maybe re-arrange the roster to have Arathorn play before me or move me after Sirian so they don't have to comment on each other moves.

Sirian: I don't know all the details of how the RB rules came to exists but I understand you and Sulla where th driving force behind them. You do a great job with RBCiv, you wouldn't have 41 signups for the pot luck if you didn't. And there would not be so many (how many is it, 13?) players wishing to enter a DSG and potentially get a very public beating. I was looking forward to get to know you and I think Charis mentioned somewhere that he was looking forward to play another SG with you. Please reconsider, this might be the last DSG for a while, as MOO III will be upon us shortly. Oh and don't take offense to this, but I do see RBCiv as some kind of monarchy. In my opinion, it is the only way for it to work smoothly.

Arathorn: I don't know as much about you, I came to RBCiv shortly before you left, but hey chill out on the rules. When you enter someone else playground, you have to expect to play by their rules. Just be glad that, in this case, the king was willing to listen to everyone's opinion before ruling.

To all: I believe we are all adults here, and I am pretty sure you all have your fair share of nasty politics in real life. So let's go on with the show and have fun, I think we are all here just for that.
 
Sirian, I remember in D2, one comment you made was that the people you had the strongest disagreement with were people who you hadn't gamed with. The forum disagreements weren't balanced by any RL memories of good gaming time spent together. So it is here. The poison can't escape, for either of you, while the disagreement remains the only recent memory. The fact that one side still holds a grudge shouldn't be surprising because it seems clear that the grudge goes both ways. The way I see it, that is going to be how it is unless *both* of you sincerely desire to rebuild the relationship. I don't think the root of your disagreement can be solved, but I do think it can be accepted and balanced by a positive gaming experience.

Sirian, if you're not ready to rebuild, that's your perogative, but please consider what you're walking away from. The cost of walking away may very well continue to take its toll into the future, for the sake of a minute's emotional peace. That may be the right choice for you at this moment, but, they way I see it, we all lose as a result.

-Griselda
 
My goodness. Firestorm! Firestorm! What have I started?

I don't usually read the forums over the weekend, since my dial-up connection is so slow, but I checked in to see the progress/start of RBE5...what do I find? AARGGHH!! A mess! And, me in the center (and apparently the instigator) of it.

I offer my apologies to all. I didn't realize what I was going to start, in my apparently non-innocent suggestions.

A couple clarifications without a full read -- and more coming tomorrow.

1. By 4/5, I meant into epics RBE4 and RBE5, the games which were currently under consideration. I think all agree that 4 or 5 is the optimal number to have in a standard succession game.
2. By "un-qualified" (specifically with the quotes), I mean players who do not qualify for RBE but who qualify as deity- or near-deity-quality players. I have no problem with Sirian setting up a series exclusive to those who have beaten deity. Why would I? I also have no problem personally running a deity-level game with players who think they're ready for deity (or very close) but don't meet the criteria. I see no reason these two can't co-exist peacefully.
3. Yeah, I went overboard with suggestions/pushing the game ahead. I was just anxious to get the game started. I'll apologize specifically for that. I was out of line.

Specifically, if RBE5 goes with the agreed-on roster, I am amenable to just about any settings (other than large/huge map) with any captain.

As for Sirian leaving the RB community/CFC boards, it is entirely his choice. I can respect either decision, personally.

I am very confused by the different tones of the messages on the 16th and on the 17th, however. In the message of the 16th, I feel Sirian is trying to build a bridge and I want to meet him halfway (or beyond). The message of the 17th seems much angrier towards me, which is unfair since NOTHING in my position could have changed/clarified between them, because I hadn't read the message of the 16th.

That's enough steam-of-consciousness for now. I will comment further Monday.

Arathorn
 
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