The reasons of the rise and fall of Myspace, Facebook, why one surpasses the other and becomes the monopolist, are to a great extend buried in the partly irrational laws of motion of social media. CFC shouldn't pat its own back too much for being so much bigger than Apolyton or WePlayCiv, the latter of which just picked a stupid name. I don't eat in a restaurant with a stupid name.
Let me give an example, how PDMA successfully works in another forum, Total War Center, of about the same size as CFC, going by page views considerably bigger. I picked an example,
in which a forum member publicly contests a moderator action, with the outcome, that the appeal is granted. In this example, both the unjustly infracted forum member
and the "loosing" moderator can walk out with their heads held high. I think, the atmosphere of the entire place is lifted by such moments of "justice", and I'm not worried, that the moderator will stand down because of this single lost match.