Well let's go about it in a backward route. Young Muslims are taught in school in that corner of the world to hate everything not like them. They're taught Jews are bad, Christians are infidels, and women are basically one step up from inanimate property. So they're taught how to hate from an early age, much like a young child growing up in Fortress Europe would have been indoctrinated into Nazism.
Strawman, no only fundementalists are taught that, you did fail to seperate liberal muslims from hardcore minorities.
They then export that hatred, in the form of verbal calls to Jihad and acts of terror, around the world, eventually instilling in many the idea that the only way to get to heaven is to kill people not like you. Then people commit acts of terror against those not like them.
Only the fundementalists and as I stated very much 0.0001% deal there
We in America and elsewhere in the civilized world are taught in school to accept the differences of others, even to our own deficit. We are forced to find nothing wrong with other cultures and religions, even if deep in our heart we find those views to be repugnant. If we go out and kill others for the benefit of our religion or politics, we are put in jail and can face execution. In some countries in the Middle East it's OK to execute your wife if she cheats on you, or your daughter if she has sex before marriage.
You didn't listen to the message of tolerance then as your first post indicates that you would espouse revenge over tolerance
So where does the hate come from? From the fact that we went to the Middle East and showed them how to take the oil out of the ground and made them wealthy beyond all measure? Is it something that we did to them?
If you knew your history you would know full well that we sought to exploit the middle East from day one for it's oil, they got rich, we despised the unrest caused by our heavy handed power plays and we got burned, then like a little but of history repeating we tried to reinforce our exploitation again and it backfired, I'm trusting you'll look into the history, again this hatred never existed in a vaccum.
Or is it something that THEY did to themselves?
Very much an exploitation deal that backfired