I'm not committed to being a jerk at all...but I'll hunt a rat out of a woodpile if I have to burn the entire woodpile in the process.
Exactly why I wouldn't want to risk a polite request to you.
I'm not committed to being a jerk at all...but I'll hunt a rat out of a woodpile if I have to burn the entire woodpile in the process.
Exactly why I wouldn't want to risk a polite request to you.
Your mistake. If you came to my door and said "the ice on your sidewalk screws up my training runs" I'd have a friendly conversation with you, because I'd be interested in anyone who trains for anything in the deep winter. Then I would not only resolve your problem with my sidewalk, but take care of making sure my immediate neighbors did as well.
On the other hand, if the cops come to my door about the ice on the sidewalk I would clear it. And the next time there was ice I would keep an eye out for people who seemed unusually interested in my sidewalk. Anyone who appeared to make a specific note of my address would be immediately classified as a rat, and dealt with appropriately.
Yeah, I have no wish to attempt any in-personal dealings with irrational madmen.
And anyway, the empirical evidence shows that my way works, and has no negative consequences.
We have now drifted significantly:
To be honest I don't know what the best course of action here is though I probably won't report unless my neighbor or his drug dealer irritates me now.
If you don't want to involve the police, either because you feel it would be excessive or because you believe it would be ineffective, you can always bring up the issue with your landlord.
And anyway, the empirical evidence shows that my way works, and has no negative consequences.
Until the rat gets caught in the woodpile they always think it is a fine snug home.
Good luck to you.
Better luck to your victims.
Ciao.
What evidence? The evidence shows that people who get cops called on them immediately reform their ways & never have run ins with police ever again?
Moral question with several off shoots:
1 Is cannabis destructive to society?
2 Does it cause things like vehicle crime?
3 Will there be blowout from this?
I don't like snitching on people so I haven't yet.
Your thoughts?
The only time I would do it is if somebody was dealing in my apartment building or next door, and the smell/commotion was causing problems in my own living space. I've done that for pot use as well.
I couldn't care less if people smoke pot, but when it begins to infringe on my ability to have a quiet (and free-of-odor) apartment, then I get mad.
Ask your neighbor to bake to get baked and to vape to get blazed. It's a disruptive odor if you don't want to smell it. Fortunately, unlike with tobacco, it clears very convincingly very fast.
- Grab a roll of toilet paper, remove all toilet paper
- Stuff a bunch of fleece fabric softener sheets in there
- Exhale through your new magical marijuana smoke to lemony scent converter
One of my residents did that when I was an RA. Worked well.
1. Yes, but criminalization is far worse.
2. No.
3. Depends on the situation, it won't make you friends. But it's unlikely anybody will come cap your knee.
Personally I wouldn't unless it was directly disrupting your living space. All that said if they ever called a noise complaint on me I would rat them out in an instant.
And yes, I'd report any illegal drug dealing I knew about.
Totally.
Stinking up the hallway with the scent of your weed and being so overt in your drug deals that your neighbors feel compelled to record the plate number of your dealer is a the very definition of a dick.
Agreed 100%.
But no, smokers have to litter their drug related paraphernalia everywhere. I have no idea why everybody seems to think that throwing your cigarette butts on the ground is "a-okay".
Do your drug somewhere where it doesn't affect the rest of us, please. And take all your garbage with you.
Calling cops should always be an absolute last resort. Would I want cops called on me over some small thing? No, I'd appreciate someone telling me personally. Now if I slam the door in their face thats something different but most people wouldn't do that.
The worst is couples who constantly call the cops on each other, I have absolutely zero respect for them. I've been thru hell & back (and then back to hell again) with my ex but we have never gotten the law involved, nor have we gotten the law involved in sorting our mutual child's care/upbringing.
I view the law (cops/court/etc.) kind of like I view hospitals, good in an absolute emergency (maybe), otherwise something I want to stay the hell away from.
Most times if someone's being a dick & you figure direct confrontation is useless there are more creative ways to influence them than calling police.
Wow, that's rather vindictive. What if they reported you on a noise complaint because you were actually being loud?
Then I would have appreciated a simple, "Sounds like you're having fun, but it's late and I have to get up. Could you take the volume down a notch or two?"
Bear in mind if you're not in the dorms that noise complaint is going to result in deputies/troopers responding to my door. And if I'm the sort of person that might be doing what you're talking about doing, I'd be under the correct assumption that you are attempting to get me arrested.
Dealer? You don't have to be dealing to be consuming, and it's the consuming that tends to smell instead of dealing.