Hello Greyfox,
actually you are certainly working on the biggest project a single person was ever working on during the whole history of modding CIV (two heavy chnaging mods that completely alter gfx and gameplay). I somehow fear that it is slightly too much and will not see the light of the day soon.
Your work done so far is fantastic, why do you not just focus on one project (Interstellar Mod) and just publish it as a beta ?
I fully understand that you want to present a perfect product but .. you know there are fifty people who worked on CivIV, 10 people who work on TAM, 10 people on Lord of the Mods, certainly 10 people on FFH ... etc etc