So there's a guy at my college that wants to get in a fight with me...

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Take a punch fall to the floor, as i said your doing this in a public place and it will be full of witnesses. Anyway I think it's beyond the college's remit to discipline students who threaten people like you, he is an adult it is the police who have that responsbility. All the college can do is throw him out.

btw zelig's suggestion is hillarious :lol:

you used caps in the above response? maybe you were shouting at him?

He dares not attack me in the work center area where I sit with my friends because 1. lots of people there (as you said)
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2. those people are my FRIENDS. Not only would they report his action, but they would step in if he tried to attack me. In fact one of my friends followed him down the hall, and I told him to please turn back because I don't want to fight this guy if I don't have to.

Where he would attack me is the outside place where I wait for the bus to pick me up, because there aren't many people there, generally very few. Just whoever's passing by, which isn't many. That would be the perfect place for him to attack me, which is why I stand in front of the book store.
 
Report it to the higher ups, every community college should have some sort of protocol to deal with this, try student services and just look at the rack of brochures. Failing that and maybe in addition to it you can always get a restraining order, and have a sheriff serve him with it for good measure. Restraining orders are usually forms you download from your local court website, all you do it show up and turn it in and wait all day and a Judge signs it. (Or doesn't sign it.) Viola, he goes to jail if he comes near you.

Calling the cops won't do anything, they will just tell you to get a restraining order.

This is my new preferred answer. Trust this man.
 
You provoke him, you whisper in his ear "hows your mum? she was a bit sore when i left her last night!" the usual stuff :lol:. Then you deny it when people ask you if you said anything and you say he has threatened you before. You win. MY PLAN IS FLAWLESS

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You provoke him, you whisper in his ear "hows your mum? she was a bit sore when i left her last night!" the usual stuff :lol:. Then you deny it when people ask you if you said anything and you say he has threatened you before. You win. MY PLAN IS FLAWLESS

:crazyeye:

Until he comes back with a weapon.

Just try to keep away from him.
 
Other than "yelling" I did nothing to deserve his profanity and insults directed at me. So when he confirmed he was serious, of course I told him to piss off.
Well if you feel that way you're no better than he is. He may have anger problems, but you're equally inept at handling these situations. It alright tho. You both are young so maybe later you both can think this over and reevaluate how you guys went about things. Its good that you didn't end up doing anything regrettable. Commend you on that at least.

He's just eager to get in a fight with me.
and hr thinks you were just eagerly trying to insult him I suppose.
 
You could also try nicely asking him why he's so mad at you. If you act nice to him his whole aggressive attitude looks even more ridiculous. Try to figure out whatever reasoning or justification he has behind his actions.

But yeah definitely don't engage him physically, or be alone with him.
 
Well if you feel that way you're no better than he is.

I would like you to elaborate on this.

You could also try nicely asking him why he's so mad at you. If you act nice to him his whole aggressive attitude looks even more ridiculous. Try to figure out whatever reasoning or justification he has behind his actions.

But yeah definitely don't engage him physically, or be alone with him.

I think talking to him would only make things worse, even if we were talking in a safe, public place. The "file a restraining order" seems to be the best advise thus far.
 
So I don't see this guy getting out of my life any time soon. I already reported him to the teacher, but apparently whatever she did didn't work. What do you suggest I do?

Of course whatever she did didn't work! I know from experience teachers do squat when it comes to a bully or someone who wants to fight you. Usually people who want to fight you, especially for that particular reason, aren't motivated by any logic at all and entirely by their own machismo. It sounds like either he'll get bored of trying to beat you up or you'll end up fighting with him. If worse comes to worse and he fights you, put up both your fists in front of your face, making your forearms into an upside down V while anticipating any blows like this:

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These are just my theories I've been going over my head for a while and I've never put these theories into practice in my entire life so take what I say with a big ol' spoon of salt. This arm and fist positioning with your arms will help deflect any blows he might throw. If he tries to punch straight through, you can snap together your forearms to form a sort of shield. Sounds like he's just a thug wanna be so chances are he'll do a wide swing, like a sideways pendulum. If he's swinging wide with his right arm straight, you can block it with your left forearm, putting your forearm to the side to cushion the force before his fist could get close. If his fist were to make any contact, theoretically a great amount of force would have already been dissipated against your forearm.

If you absolutely, positively must throw a punch, wait until you block one of his punches. Remember to use your knuckles when you strike and I mean where your finger actually connects with the hand, not the little joins in the finger or you may end up breaking your fingers. If it's a wide swing, he'll leave himself completely open. You can use that opening to strike a number of sensitive areas. The 'false rib' or the 'floating rib' areas are tender places where there's thin, un-callused skin over hard bone. The clavicle (bone at the base of your neck running to your shoulders) is also a good sensitive place on the body. See for yourself by tapping your clavicle a few times with your knuckles. Don't aim for the face because there's all sorts of sharp stuff there like teeth, cheek bones, eye sockets that could cut your hand up bad.

The most important rule is to never let yourself get thrown to the ground or trip up because while you're standing up, you only have to be afraid of his fists. If you're on the ground, now you gotta deal with his whole body weight. If you trip up, get back up as quickly as possible.

THESE ARE ALL THEORIES and I do not recommend in the slightest bit you do anything beyond the part where you strike back. This guy sounds like a thug in training so he could very well gather more of his friends to come at you a second time. Use these theories ONLY as an ultimate last resort after calling the cops.
 
Nah, look like you are going to kick him in the nuts, and kick really hard in the kneecaps, THEN the nuts.
 
I think talking to him would only make things worse, even if we were talking in a safe, public place. The "file a restraining order" seems to be the best advise thus far.
Only if you tell him to "piss off" again. Keep calm, assuming your story is true he's got stuff he needs to work out and you don't need to make things worse.

Restraining order works too.
 
Nah, look like you are going to kick him in the nuts, and kick really hard in the kneecaps, THEN the nuts.

Then be sure to kick him when he's down a few times while screaming something badass like "THERE CAN BE ONLY ONE!" or something like that.
 
Kneecaps first though. It's an easy target (he's covering his nuts!).
 
If worse comes to worse, you play dirty in a street fight. Your only kidding yourself if you try to play by some sort of unwritten street code of honor, destroy his testicles :lol:
 
Just adding to the chorus of voices recommending not to engage directly and instead rely on the college's disciplinary system for dealing with this.

Speaking from the experiences with a family friends who have dealt with aggressive people, it may be hard to get a restraining order unless he actually does something to you. So working with the school first and then the police if the issue can't be resolved is probably the right course of action.
 
Report it to the higher ups, every community college should have some sort of protocol to deal with this, try student services and just look at the rack of brochures. Failing that and maybe in addition to it you can always get a restraining order, and have a sheriff serve him with it for good measure. Restraining orders are usually forms you download from your local court website, all you do it show up and turn it in and wait all day and a Judge signs it. (Or doesn't sign it.) Viola, he goes to jail if he comes near you.

Calling the cops won't do anything, they will just tell you to get a restraining order.

I meant the College cops. I know the police at UIC would take the time to look in to this and talk to the teacher(s). At that point you have a police report to take judge, it also in a roundabout way also puts the teacher on notice. Someone threatening you is assault.
 
A profile/short description of this guy would be very helpful for us to offer you accurate advise. (It's very important to know what kind of person this guy is)

For now just ignore him. DON'T go reporting him to ANYBODY (just yet), it's way too soon to know if just a little time won't blow this whole thing over. If you report him to any kind of authority, and word gets back to him, that could make things worse, then you could really be in trouble with this guy. Do you really think giving him more reasons to hate you is a good plan? That's why you should wait a little, avoid any confrontation. Then if his harassment continues, you have no choice but to report him to who ever necessary.

Depending on what kind of mentality the guy has, he could just lose interest if it's clear you have no intention of engaging with him. Though he'll always think of you negatively, at least he wouldn't be a threat any more. But this all depends on what kind of person this is.

Again, for now, STOP reporting this guy to ANYBODY. You could be making the situation worse.

But please offer us a description of this guy, saying he's white tells us nothing. What kind of clothes does he wear? How does he talk? What kind of people does he hang out with? What's his build (tall, skinny, fat, buff etc.)? Is he usually disruptive in your class? Does he look poor? Rich? We need to know what kind of person you're dealing with.
 
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