So there's a guy at my college that wants to get in a fight with me...

[caketastydelish]

A profile/short description of this guy would be very helpful for us to offer you accurate advise. (It's very important to know what kind of person this guy is)

For now just ignore him. DON'T go reporting him to ANYBODY (just yet), it's way too soon to know if just a little time won't blow this whole thing over. If you report him to any kind of authority, and word gets back to him, that could make things worse, then you could really be in trouble with this guy. Do you really think giving him more reasons to hate you is a good plan? That's why you should wait a little, avoid any confrontation. Then if his harassment continues, you have no choice but to report him to who ever necessary.

Depending on what kind of mentality the guy has, he could just lose interest if it's clear you have no intention of engaging with him. Though he'll always think of you negatively, at least he wouldn't be a threat any more. But this all depends on what kind of person this is.

Again, for now, STOP reporting this guy to ANYBODY. You could be making the situation worse.

But please offer us a description of this guy, saying he's white tells us nothing. What kind of clothes does he wear? How does he talk? What kind of people does he hang out with? What's his build (tall, skinny, fat, buff etc.)? Is he usually disruptive in your class? Does he look poor? Rich? We need to know what kind of person you're dealing with.

He is 100% unshaven, and I'm referring to his beard. He has quite a beard on his face, it seems he wants to grow it out as much as possible.

He is relatively tall I guess, but not abnormally so. As to how he talks, as I already said he talks very vulgarly and without proper English. Pretty ghetto if you ask me.

As for clothing he seems to be dressed pretty normally, I think. I think he was wearing a jacket and blue jeans.

 

[ghostmaker650]

If worse comes to worse, you play dirty in a street fight. Your only kidding yourself if you try to play by some sort of unwritten street code of honor, destroy his testicles

Indeed. There are no rules in a street fight, as Bas Rutten teaches us.

"Everybody always underestimates the kick to the groin"


Link to video.

Chuck Norris ain't got nothin on Bas Rutten.

 

[ghostmaker650]

He is 100% unshaven, and I'm referring to his beard. He has quite a beard on his face, it seems he wants to grow it out as much as possible.

He is relatively tall I guess, but not abnormally so. As to how he talks, as I already said he talks very vulgarly and without proper English. Pretty ghetto if you ask me.

As for clothing he seems to be dressed pretty normally, I think. I think he was wearing a jacket and blue jeans.

Hmmm, Okay. Now the way he talks, is it ghetto gangsta? As if he's from "da hood"?

 

[CommonKnowledge]

"Everybody always underestimates the kick to the groin"

Link to video.

 

[caketastydelish]

Hmmm, Okay. Now the way he talks, is it ghetto gangsta? As if he's from "da hood"?

That's a good question, and honestly I don't know. I don't know where to draw the line between "ghetto" and "ghetto gangsta" but his text message sums up how he talks. "where you at"

 

[ghostmaker650]

That's a good question, and honestly I don't know. I don't know where to draw the line between "ghetto" and "ghetto gangsta" but his text message sums up how he talks. "where you at"

Okay. I don't think this guy is a physical threat to you. I don't think he has any serious intention of fighting you, unless provoked (which you wont be doing anyway). He's just a dick who forgot to grow up. He may continue to give you crap for a little bit, but he'll lose interest soon. If he never stops harassing you though, then take the advice others have posted here, and consult the appropriate authorities at the school. But that should be the last thing you do. First give it time, just wait and see how things go. Most likely you have nothing to worry about.

 

[caketastydelish]

Okay. I don't think this guy is a physical threat to you. I don't think he has any serious intention of fighting you, unless provoked (which you wont be doing anyway). He's just a dick who forgot to grow up. He may continue to give you crap for a little bit, but he'll lose interest soon. If he never stops harassing you though, then take the advice others have posted here, and consult the appropriate authorities at the school. But that should be the last thing you do. First give it time, just wait and see how things go. Most likely you have nothing to worry about.

If what you say is true, that's comforting. But I would like to know how you summarize he's no threat to me based on how he talks.

edit: Something random I want to share: It's a shame the guy had to be white because if he wasn't the white nationalist on this forum would be helping me like crazy.

 

[shadowplay]

Failing that and maybe in addition to it you can always get a restraining order, and have a sheriff serve him with it for good measure. Restraining orders are usually forms you download from your local court website, all you do it show up and turn it in and wait all day and a Judge signs it. (Or doesn't sign it.) Viola, he goes to jail if he comes near you.

Calling the cops won't do anything, they will just tell you to get a restraining order.

I'm not a lawyer, but getting a restraining order against someone in the same class as you probably wouldn't be as simple as you're making it out to be.

 

[Ayn Rand]

If what you say is true, that's comforting. But I would like to know how you summarize he's no threat to me based on how he talks.

edit: Something random I want to share: It's a shame the guy had to be white because if he wasn't the white nationalist on this forum would be helping me like crazy.

It's ok, you don't have to bring race into it just because some posters here are obssessed with it

 

[Camikaze]

Moderator Action: Closed for review.

 

[Camikaze]

Moderator Action: When I quickly glanced at this thread, I thought it'd be full or inappropriate posts, but going through it in more detail, it was nice to see lots of really helpful and thoughtful posts. So thanks everyone who contributed positively.

@ParadigmShifter and Quackers in particular- please learn how to identify red diamond threads so you can avoid them if you don't have anything useful to add.

Anyway, I'll leave this thread closed (unless someone has a compelling reason why it should be reopened), because there's not really anywhere else for it to go (apart from, perhaps, into the ground). All the good advice seems to have been given.

And for the record, CFC isn't qualified to provide you with advice on such issues as this, so please make sure you consult appropriate sources before doing anything drastic.