Ryika
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I actually read and listen to a lot of what feminists write and say and I agree that people who only listen to sargon of akkad videos would get a rather one-sided view on feminism. But the world is not black and white, you would do good to get out of your echo-chamber and actually listen to what people on neutral ground have to say without just dismissing their point of view by assuming they must be some idiots from the other side.That's what you think because you don't actually read anything feminists write at large, you just watch sargon of akkad videos.
Well, it's interesting that you mention shelters, given that feminsts do indeed run a lot of women's shelters while at the same time arguing against men's shelters, thereby keeping up the stereotype of men as abusers and women as victims. One of the many inconsistencies of modern feminists, gender equality only when it benefits women.Feminists at large run shelters and promote gender equality: obsessing over women's rights in far away countries usually doesn't make much sense since there is very little you can actually do about the women's rights situation in Saudi Arabia.
But I agree, feminists can do very little to help women in the middle east, that does not stop them from including these areas in their "I'm a feminist, because..."-videos though, or making arguments that feminism in the west is "still needed because women in the middle east are mistreated!".
Name me 5 with a sizable following comparable to many of the "I complain about irrelevant stuff!"-feminists. And please don't answer with "Educate yourself!", I seriously want to know so I can get to know about their work. (<- Less known individuals are also welcome for educational purpose but won't count towards the "See, that's what feminism is really about!"-argument)That said, there are plenty of feminists who do make it their cause to combat third world misogyny.
See, even if I were to accept that, the fact that I can convert now and become a Muslim, a follower of Islam tomorrow shows the absurdity of what you're trying to do.Not redefining: race has always used to refer to ethnic groups with similar customs and language, in addition to the phenotypical category.
I don't know if you're being dishonest, or if you're being serious, but here's the deal: You are the only one who is using the word "Muslim" to describe everybody in area X. Your argument is still: "Well, if we assume that Muslims are a race, then assuming that all of them think the same is racist." Muslims are not a race, Muslims are people who share a belief-system, that's what makes them Muslims, not that they're from X.In a sense, I'm using terms meaningfully, because Muslims might as well constitute a race in practice. A child born in Iran or Saudi learns to integrate Islam into his fundamental cultural identity starting from his very formative years. None of that really means that he is destined to support any specific political view, and it might as well be racist to imply that he must support a certain political viewpoint in order to be a muslim.
Women do not need help in western countries, things are just fine. Well, at least as fine as it gets, our society is certainly not perfect. Men suffer, women suffer. A movement that focuses on women as victims and men as evil is only creating more problems. As much as you want to look like the good guys, most people simply disagree, with polls showing that while the wish for equality is pretty much universal in these times more and more people don't want to associate with the label.Besides that, I much prefer armchair feminists to armchair critics of feminists, who devote all their intellectual energy to maintain the status quo and convince themselves and others that no change is necessary, least of all for themselves.
How does criticizing feminists who decide to focus on domestic issues help women in even more overtly patriarchal societies again? Such appeals to hypocrisy are inherently hollow and intellectually dishonest.
Feminism often tries to gain legitimacy by pretending to fight higher goals than they actually fight for, pointing out this fact is a valuable thing to do.