Well, I would not go into deep psychological analysis, I will just give me memories of 2 games I played, one using Pit Boss, other was online.
Game one, Civ 4 vanilla, Every one getting commercial leaders, game creator playing england ofcouse, commercial/philosophical with redcoats.
Russia, creative commercial with cossacks is taken too instantly.
Well, I choose Germany, creative/philosophical. No tech trade, as usual online.
Pangear, large map.
I spawn in south, near tundra, centre of main continent, have 5 neibors. I say main continent, because even it is one continent, a bit smaller one connected only by narrow choke and contain only 3 people.
Russia is my neibor. Well, I have not mach food, but what to do, connect marble and stone with second and third city and went to wander building. Farm everything.
Attacking early was inefficient because of distances, but I made a few scouting chariots to warn me and scout borders.
Russia was expanded into my direction and took double gold I wanted.
well, I needed to guard this border and this gold, so when I got GA(Great artist) I bulb Music (I was sure Russia was researching it as way to cossacks.)
I settle city near gold and culture bomb it same turn.
So, Now I have 60% defense city.
Mass axe production issues. he declare war and mass axe start to accumulate. HIs stack was slightly bigger then mine but not big enough to take city.
My scout see stream of axes coming from direction of neibor, too many to be produces by cise 1 city he had here. As I understand later 2 neibors were gifting him axes.
(I had highest score).
I whip/chop axes as creasy, had to bulb Metallocasting using GE so I can whip forges for bonus and happiness.
I run 20-30% cultural slide to stay afloat, was in -20 gold with 100% taxes, but was gettign fail gold form national wanders and global wanders.
He got Cats bring figth 2 and start to bombard my city. But my mass whipping finally payed off, I bring hidden behind city stack and just barely whip his. I used my first cat, did not had time to wait or he would be attacking first. (got constriction using fail gold.)
(Power graph was immediate at that stage, power drop was spectacular for booth of as, his stack was fortified on hill.).
after healing I beat up his reserve stack and took his neiboring city.
At that moment neibors which give him axes declare was on him.
He got ungry and tell me that he will stop resisting me, but send all his armies to whip neibors. (My stack was still like 25+ axes).
At that moment I see cats/elephants stack going form other neibor (Sentry chariots are good, they can shadow stack with out been seen).
So I had barely time to move my highly promoted axes + 4 cats and hit this stack first, by building road to his position. Stack dead.. H sue for peace, which I accept. additional +3 war wariness on top of my whipping ....
and fair game finish.
Game organized kick out Russian player and replaced it with his friend with out telling anyone. (Other initial player was just replaces by AI when he left and I do not believe Russian left).
So, Suddenly I see Russian pillaging all cottages just befor I taking his cities and brign his army from neibors to his single city (On hil with lot of defence) actions absolutely not in line of his feelings(I talk to him) that how I discover that there now a new player managing Russia.
Player which seems to the only goal it to slow me down. I am sure it was actually game organizers, as previously all reft players were managed by AI's. I protest, he kick me out..
Well, I probably look dangerous, and big, but I was at -6 in all cities, with no forest and no cottages, have 10% research with -2 gold/turn.
I check game later (England - organizer won LoL, how he can put any value in that win?)
Still I was enjoying game until that point.
Second game online.
I was plying Egypt I think. at start one player get army and went taking capitals of his neibors. I can not let him do it or he will become too big, so I whip army and crash him, was able to keep only his capital and on other side of map.
then on other neibor finally got a lots of Kenshic, I hold him off with a lot of spears.
I was too busy fighting, not mach expanding, lul in combat. I used my Bulb economy to run to Liberalism, took nationalism and research gunpowder.
One guy was left alone, expand on place of dead neibors and become huge. declare on my and come with a big stack of medieval army.
what i am to do? Draft Muskets every turn. I still lost by best city with 5 wanders or soo (My gp farm). But mass drafting payed of, I kill his stack and retook city.
He still had like 15 of his own to my 6. I was at 60% culture slider to maintain my draft. He left the game... LOl, believing he lost..
still was a great fun, bought time my opponents believe I am in mach better position then I really was.
Now, are such stories possible in civ 5? No, No and no. It you crash person initial army = you won. that it, that is all game.
so, no wander civ 5 is boring.