Treatment for text message addict

ComradeDavo

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One weird addiction....

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/4342326.stm

A teenager is being treated for text messaging and e-mail addiction in what is believed to be the first case of its kind in Scotland.
The 19-year-old from Paisley, who did not want to be identified, said texting was like "a game of ping-pong".

In the space of a year, 'Steven' spent £4,500 on text messaging.

He was sending about 700 texts a week and resigned from his job after bosses found out he had sent 8,000 e-mails in one month.

Realising there was a problem the public sector union Unison referred him to a counselling service where he is still being treated.

Counsellors at the Renfrewshire Council on Alcohol (RCA) Trust in Paisley said they have never seen anything like it in 25 years of treating addictions.

Steven said the majority of his e-mails were between him and his girlfriend, from whom he has since split up.

The problem came to light when one of his e-mails intended for his girlfriend was accidentally sent to work colleagues.

He said bosses at work confronted him with statistics showing the number of e-mails he had sent and demanded an explanation.

The teenager resigned from his job rather than face disciplinary procedures.

'Comforting texts'

Steven said there was something comforting about receiving text messages on his mobile phone and there was always an element of curiosity when he received a message.

He told BBC Scotland: "When you look at your mobile and you've got a message you wonder who it could be.

"It's kind of comforting when you get one. I like it, it's like a game of ping-pong, as you send one and get one back.

"There are quite a lot of people I know who text a lot and they don't really know that help is available, or they might not see it as a problem."

Philip Irvine, of the RCA, said: "We have never come across it before and I've been working in this field for 10 years.

"On any one day, he was sending about 300 e-mails to his girlfriend. He was texting her every day and probably spending £20 to £30 a week on texts."

Mr Irvine said much of the problem ended when Steven split from his girlfriend.

"It was related to the relationship difficulties he was experiencing.

"In terms of an addiction, that isn't unusual - there are often underlying problems, problems at work, relationship problems, stress or not coping, or mental health difficulties.

"For him, it was all about gaining reassurance from his girlfriend, knowing where she was and knowing what she was doing."

Mr Irvine, who is counselling the teenager once a week, said he had successfully managed to cut down the number of texts and e-mails he was sending.

"He is spending no more than £10 a week on texts, which is the goal we set, and he has cut down on the e-mails altogether."

Professor Patrick O'Donnell, a psychologist from Glasgow University, said new technology could bring new dangers which could signal the beginning of a worrying trend.
Wow. £4,500 on text messaging in a year. That's insane.

And no surprise if he split up from his girlfriend after e-mailing her 300 times a day!!!!!!!!!
 
ComradeDavo said:
...And no surprise if he split up from his girlfriend after e-mailing her 300 times a day!!!!!!!!!
Or, rather, if she dumped him. ;)
 
19 years old and spending £4,500 on texting. I barely spend £10 a month on texting, and even then I try to make it last.

I'd be terrified if I were on the recieving end of such a text/mail onslaught.
 
It'd be like a evil form of Perfection and Curtsibling rolled into one!

Just that thought is scary.
 
Woa, this is just bizarre.

He should get treatment immediately, any form of addiction is not good at all.
 
I've never understood what the point of texting is, unless you're in a place where you can't talk.
 
writing a text and mailing it is easier than speaking to the other person, if one feels very emotional/anxious. In a way one distances himself/herself from the actual words.
There have been cases of writers who used to write long (multi-paged) letters (almost) each day, for example Franz Kafka and H. P. Lovecraft. Emails and msm texts are nothing much different than that, and i am surprised that those treating him said that they have never seen anything of the kind, and that this is related to new techs. It has been something which existed since epistolography has existed :)
Also in a way dont we do something like that here too? We write posts, and then are curious about the replies we will get ;)
 
Wow! Instead of hearing and speaking our voices as if we were in the same physical location; we type on tiny keyboard on tiny monitors, writing near incomprehensible messages to each other, while paying by the letter for the privilege.

The future IS here!
 
varwnos said:
writing a text and mailing it is easier than speaking to the other person, if one feels very emotional/anxious. In a way one distances himself/herself from the actual words.
If I were emotional over something, I don't think it'd be appropriate to text the person about it....
 
mrtn said:
Or, rather, if she dumped him. ;)
Heh, yeah thats what I meant!:D

Masquerouge said:
This guy should post on CFC and beat the spam out of everybody here.
If he got this addicted to txt's and e-mails can you imagine what a game of civ would do to him????!!!!:eek:
 
WillJ said:
I've never understood what the point of texting is, unless you're in a place where you can't talk.
I often send people an sms if they're not answering calls. That way they'll see the message in due time, and I don't have to go around calling again.

I also use sms to reach people who I have reason to think would not be too trilled about an actual call - like if they're at work.
 
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