Speaking of reloading, I'm thinking this game has some seed like in Civ games preventing you from reloading to get better combat results. I tried a couple of times, but when you miss you miss, reloading will not help with that. So I don't bother. Yeah you can try to change the combat seed by doing other actions, but it's best to just deal with it. Which is the beauty of Ironman.
I do think I'll try an ironman game eventually. I think that will definitely make the game "different" for me. But I'll probably try normal ironman, not classic. I'm just not that much of a classic, and I can see myself breaking my keyboard if too many things go wrong.
I really noticed the seed in my attempt to get the mind control etheral achievement. I kept trying over and over with 27% results, and I could not do it. 27% my ass. More like 0%. Even trying to change the seed, and waiting 2 turns later I couldn't do it with 27% odds. So next mission I had to give the mind probe to my psi guy (the other mission I had the mind probe on a guy who couldn't mind control

, and for some stupid reason you can't trade inventory on missions)