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This is an article about sibling incest, which i found interesting:
http://www.bmi.net/jgp/USI.htm

The literature on taboo's, with incest being the most important of them, and its foundation, is full of observations about the biological reasons for the fear of incest (offspring of families that impregranted their members had weaker immunal systems, and so they had more often illnesses than offsprings of families which had sexual relationships with non relatives, and so incest inevitably would be seen as evil/demonic etc -- note that this is just a comment about the ethical part of it, and not of the specifics of a case of incest, which ussually is traumatic) and of the psychological effects of it.

The article writer makes three categorizations of incest:
1. incest between siblings wich are close in age and intelligence (although it doesnt mention specific ages it definately means considerably less than 5 years of difference). This is labeled "explorative".
2. exploitive incest, where the older sibling has a bigger age by far (still less than 5 years though) and/or is clearly more powerfull in the family,
3. abusive, where the older sibling is 5 years older or more, and naturally is stronger in all respects.

A very sensitive subject, sibling incest takes place mostly in dysfunctional families, for a multitude of reasons, but it is not to be linked to parent-child incest, which has different characteristics.

I would like to ask if you have ever thought about this topic, and if so what is your view about it?
 
As long as both involved are mataure and aware of the consequeces and are doing it consensually I don't give a damn. It is their choice.
 
It is about incest in the beginning of puberty. All cases take place then. Although there are examples of adult incest (eg lord byron and his sister), one has to guess that it started when they were in puberty. The article discusses family dynamics and provides some insight on the issue.
 
silver 2039 said:
As long as both involved are mataure and aware of the consequeces and are doing it consensually I don't give a damn. It is their choice.

Pretty much ditto my thoughts.
 
varwnos said:
It is about incest in the beginning of puberty. All cases take place then. Although there are examples of adult incest (eg lord byron and his sister), one has to guess that it started when they were in puberty. The article discusses family dynamics and provides some insight on the issue.

Well that is diffrent then. At puberty mental or sexual development is not complete. And I would doubt that there is knowledge or awarness of the consequences. Even if it is consensual it should not be allowed not until mental or sexual development (end of puberty) is complete.

Personally I think the world would be great with a Brave New World attitude toward sex but meh thats hoping for too much.....

The thing is children are natuarally inquisitive about sex and such expolration is nataural but is repressed in our society. There should be less sexual repression and more openess about sex I believe. I don't mean incest I mean more willingness to talk about it and such and not make it such a taboo topic.
 
silver 2039 said:
Well that is diffrent then. At puberty mental or sexual development is not complete. And I would doubt that there is knowledge or awarness of the consequences. Even if it is consensual it should not be allowed not until mental or sexual development (end of puberty) is complete.
I agree with this. But remember that inquisitiveness! It would be easy to over react.

Personally I think the world would be great with a Brave New World attitude toward sex but meh thats hoping for too much.....
Just so long as it does not develop the same attitude towards reproduction and child rearing! Oh, and I think you are forgetting disease.

The thing is children are natuarally inquisitive about sex and such expolration is nataural but is repressed in our society. There should be less sexual repression and more openess about sex I believe. I don't mean incest I mean more willingness to talk about it and such and not make it such a taboo topic.
Excelent.
 
There have been cases where siblings have been separated at birth (for example by adoption) and then met as adults without knowing who the other was. It is common for a strong attraction to happen and sometimes a sexual relationship.

Sadly some of these cases have ended in suicide when the 'truth' became known by the parties involved.
 
My friend's sister almost got it on with an unknown uncle of theirs. Thankfully they started to discuss sailing before anything serious happened.
"My father wrote a book about great sailing ships."
"That's interesting, my brother wrote a book about great sailing ships."
"What's his name?"
:ack:
 
Kayak said:
Just so long as it does not develop the same attitude towards reproduction and child rearing!

Too late. It's already happening.
 
silver 2039 said:
Personally I think the world would be great with a Brave New World attitude toward sex but meh thats hoping for too much.....
I agree Brave New World really knew how to build a great society. (and I am not kidding here either)
 
Hey if they want their kids (<--- disgusting thought) to have a horrible disease that may be carried on through their recessive genes and then passed onto their kids as dominant genes that will eventually kill them, then go ahead. I think Tay-Sachs is one of them, nasty disease of sorts.
 
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