No, it's not at all unfair, and you should understand that. You are asking that others take action in accordance with a belief they don't have. This makes no sense. And no one has any right to ask such a thing of another. If an Indian told me not to eat beef, I'd tell him to forget it, and who the heck does he think he is for asking? What I do is none of his business, as long as it's not harming him. We owe each other no tribute for each other's beliefs, merely the space in which to have them.
I similarly will eat pork when I feel like it, work on the Sabbath if that's what I like, use the same dishes for both meat and dairy, eat food that is not kosher, etc.
The world is an enormous tangle of ideas that are very important to some and mere nonsense to others. One should not be able to impose such ideas on others or ask them to bow down to them. Bowing is not a healthy habit or a fit basis for human relations. Asking people to respect your ideas while throwing out their own is inherently self-contradictory. And this doesn't change regardless of how righteous one thinks one's personal claims on others are; they are still inappropriate and the very definition of selfishness. Properly speaking, you HAVE no claims on the private lives and consciousness of others.
What you can ask is that people allow you the space for your ideas, particularly if they result in no physical harm nor economic discrimination. You cannot ask people to take those ideas as their own without being a bully or a hypocrite. Both of which are unwelcome and should be called out in open, free societies, if the idea of an open and free society is to have any integrity or make any sense at all.
In short, it is not proper to expect anyone to either respect or approve your ideas, nor pretend they do, nor change a thing they do because of them. It is only sensible and right that they leave you to enjoy them in peace. And that you do the same for them.