Whats the fastest way to get sex starting from no where?

[Xanikk999]

I guess either i am really desperate or its just depressing how all my trying to get into a relationship with girls never goes anywhere.

But lets say you dont have a girl friend. What would be the fastest way to get sex from that point?

Where would you go?

What would you say?

And lets assume im a normal looking or above average looking guy.

 

[ComradeDavo]

Wow.


Um...


Wow.

 

[nonconformist]

Get a hooker?

 

[ComradeDavo]

And no i don't mean World Of Warcraft

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Dude, this isn't the kind of question you ask on a game forum!

 

[Xanikk999]

Cmon this is civ fanatics forum. CIV FANATICS!!!

I cant be alone here...

And im only 19...

 

[Red Stranger]

You consider yourself normal looking or above average looking, which translates to below average to normal looking.

Why not cuddle with her first before asking for sex. You don't get unless you give.

 

[De Lorimier]

Get a hooker?

Ditto.
Your looks won't matter, bring your wallet.

 

[Xanikk999]

What is this a really surprising thread topic? Ive seen loads of crap worse then this. Dont even get me started!

 

[Xanikk999]

You consider yourself normal looking or above average looking, which translates to below average to normal looking.

Why not cuddle with her first before asking for sex. You don't get unless you give.

I dont even know how to get past the part where you are just friends.

I mean what are you supposed to say?

I cant just ask a girl out i dont know. So i always make friends first but where do you go from there? Its never worked for me.

 

[blackheart]

Walk up to a girl in a bar/club at 1 AM and ask her if she wants to get laid.

 

[Xanikk999]

Walk up to a girl in a bar/club at 1 AM and ask her if she wants to get laid.

Thats a good idea but il have to wait until im 21.

But then isnt taking advantage of drunken women a crime and it could be considered rape?

 

[Mr. Do]

If you ask a girl to go sleep with you and she says yes, that's consent, even if she's drunk

Solution, assuming you don't like paying for sex:
-Engage in social situations with girls. Use current girl friends as "pivots" to meet more girls.
-Know your place in the scheme of things. Go for the quieter, shier girls if you're also that type- they'll love you if you bring them out of their shell.
-Be honest, and direct.

 

[Chukchi Husky]

I would just forget about it, but I'm probably the only one.

 

[Bozo Erectus]

Where would you go?

Where the women are.

What would you say?

"Greetings. I am called Xannik. I have come from a far land (points to distant hills) to mate with 'females'. Perhaps one of you is a 'female', or may direct me to where such a person may be encountered? I thank you in advance for any assistance you may render me, and would also like to apologize for any infringement on local mores that I may have unwittingly committed during this exchange. And now, I eagerly await your reply." (snaps shut the 'Guidebook to Earth Females' and smiles winningly)


Seriously, just go where the women are

 

[Red Stranger]

I dont even know how to get past the part where you are just friends.

I mean what are you supposed to say?

I cant just ask a girl out i dont know. So i always make friends first but where do you go from there? Its never worked for me.

Since you didn't argue the part about you being below average lookig to normal looking, I'm going to assume you agree. Which means you're probably below average looking. For below average looking guys like yourself, your best bet would be to develop a lot of confidence and charm. Girls really do like confidence and charm. There is a really ugly guy in school that gets the girls because he's confident. So what you need to do is keep believing you're above average, and strike conversations with girls. Then you ask for a date (if you don't feel comfortable asking for a date, don't call it date), then you ask her to be your girlfriend. Then the sex comes naturally. But use a condom, because if she gets an abortion, I'll hunt you down.

 

[Xanikk999]

If you ask a girl to go sleep with you and she says yes, that's consent, even if she's drunk

Solution, assuming you don't like paying for sex:
-Engage in social situations with girls. Use current girl friends as "pivots" to meet more girls.
-Know your place in the scheme of things. Go for the quieter, shier girls if you're also that type- they'll love you if you bring them out of their shell.
-Be honest, and direct.

Im shy myself. If you hardly know a girl what are you supposed to say at the end of a long conversation?

 

[IglooDame]

Thats a good idea but il have to wait until im 21.

But then isnt taking advantage of drunken women a crime and it could be considered rape?

Yeah, it is.

For what it's worth, I asked just about exactly the same question you did when I was 16, anonymously in Health class. Everybody thought it was some kind of joke.

I know it sounds cliched, but relax and don't worry about sex. Make friends with girls and don't fixate on moving the friendship into a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Someday it'll happen, and probably when you're least expecting it.

 

[Xanikk999]

Since you didn't argue the part about you being below average lookig to normal looking, I'm going to assume you agree. Which means you're probably below average looking. For below average looking guys like yourself, your best bet would be to develop a lot of confidence and charm. Girls really do like confidence and charm. There is a really ugly guy in school that gets the girls because he's confident. So what you need to do is keep believing you're above average, and strike conversations with girls. Then you ask for a date (if you don't feel comfortable asking for a date, don't call it date), then you ask her to be your girlfriend. Then the sex comes naturally. But use a condom, because if she gets an abortion, I'll hunt you down.

Im not ugly at all but ive never recieved comments about my appearence outside of family. And its easy to strike conversations. Its just i dont know where to go from there.

After one conversation its kind of akward to ask them out on a date.

And if you did where would you go on a date? Ive done the movies before but it still didnt pick up after that.

 

[Riesstiu IV]

Step one: Make friends with a girl.
Step two: Ask her for a date. If she says no call her a whore and go back to step one.
Step three: Develope a relationship until you get teh sex. If relationship falls apart, go back to step one.

 

[nonconformist]

For what it's worth, I asked just about exactly the same question you did when I was 16, anonymously in Health class. Everybody thought it was some kind of joke.

Slightly OT good sir, but ho wdid you "ask anonymously" in class?