While We Wait: Part 2

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Please note: cleric's opinions are not the opinions of NESing as a whole. As well, imagine if 100 new people came to OG and played your game, not knowing any of the rules. Something is bound to go wrong, is it not? I like the idea of new people coming, as it guarantees a future and new ideas. Others may not, but you seem to not like some people either. Lurking and questioning is a way to get a feel for something. If they didnt lurk and comment, they would less understand the rules, and the way things work. Look at BirdNES for that. Lurkers commenting, getting responses, and so on until they finally understand the complicated ruleset and join. As well, BJ has proven to be very helpful to new NESers, like Abbadon, who joined in BirdNES, and NukeKid.

You are saying you are better than the lurkers. You are also demeaning them for not joining, like you say we are supposedly doing to you. You make yourselves out to be better as you don't have a problem with annoying people who you can blame for the problems in a game. (if I were truly crude, I would compare this to the Jews in Nazi Germany being the cause of the problem, not contributing, and in fact ruining when it was the opposite, but since I am not like that I won't.) Lurkers are not the problem of any game. The players are. As such, in ABNES you can choose to be part of the NES or part of the problem.

You are really twisting my words... I was the one who said in the game thread "the more the merrier". And the more people who play, the better, but if people choose not to play, they ought to shut up. Else they may ruin the game. Lurkers may cause problems like revealing your tactics E.G. That is one of the reasons I resent "lurkers comments". And I have already chosen, (you are a good reason as well) I tried to be a part of ABNES, but after it was moved here and invaded, I chose to get out. And that is where I will be. A long way from the people I have already quoted in this thread, and a long way from this forum.
 
Lorgen, it saddens me that you've developed such a hatred for the NES forum... I know that it can be off-putting at times (believe me, I'm a rather overcritical person of this forum), but I do think that you shouldn't be so quick to attack.

Forum games are quite good, actually, except that there is a mafia game or two going on... NOTW and UGLE games are great, and at least we welcome new members. I read the thread Symphony directed me to regarding the placement of the NES games, and as I read it, it was mainly about; "We are better than anyone else, we do not want new players, and therefore we do not want to move to a sound place in the forums".

EDIT: which is why I really do not like this game to be moved.

I am one of the advocates of moving, and I do that mostly for wanting to find new players, however, most of those who support staying put think we're getting enough new players through players exploring. That's the primary rallying cry, not some bigotry against starting NESers. There could also be the argument that it's easier to help people learn the ropes when there aren't so many learning the ropes...

In any case, almost all of us don't think that newbies are a bad thing at all.

And as I have already written in the game-thread, please ban lurkers from commenting. Lurkers ought to be, lurkers, the game is for the players, and lurkers tend to ruin a game. Lurkers ought to shut up until the game is over.

I can't say that I agree. Lurkers can point out mistakes in an update, compliment the mod or players on some story, or give advice. Also, I do not believe this is quite founded in reality because we're not your run of the mill game. See below.

I`ve just quit because the NES was moved here. I`ve read the link SYmphony gave to another debate about where the NES forums ought to be (previous page, I think), and the message was quite clear; we do not want new players, and when the game I signed up for in the forum games is invaded by lurkers, then I am out. I despise lurkers.

And no, you do not welcome new players here.

Stick around a while--you'll find that even those who do mistrust you will eventually accept you as an NESer, and the reward of being part of a quirky gaming community might be worth it.

Nope, it is not wrong. Hypothetically; if you play chess with your brother/sister/uncle/aunt in a family arrangement. How would you feel if some great-uncle/aunt (lurker) started telling you how to play? They are not part of the game and ought to shut up. That regards every game. Either you play, or you watch, not comment.

Now, I cannot agree with you here. Lurking in a chess game is, for one thing, not so bad, if the advice would be given politely, and as long as the advised didn't specifically say, "no hints". But also, it's somewhat incomparable to the situation you're giving because of the unusual nature of the NES.

NESing is not a game like Civ. I would be annoyed if someone hung over my shoulder, looked critically at my unit placement, and told me to move somewhere, yes. But this isn't Civ. This is, at once, much more realistic, and much more in depth. It's highly multi-player, and the army moves are so much more broad than what you can do in chess and Civ that comments can be the catalyst for an interesting observation or thought that will lead you where you might not have gone.

Furthermore, the moderator is not god, despite what we occasionally act like. We do, indeed, make mistakes, and while it can be disheartening to see someone point it out, in the end, our updates will be better for it. And lurkers can also be a blessing, because there is nothing so gratifying as a simple, "great update!" after you've slaved away for eight hours on a writing that maybe only twenty people will ever see.

So I would argue that lurker comments can be an excellent addition to an NES.

However, spam, which I think is what you might really be getting to the heart of, is definitely NOT welcome, and I agree should be cut down on. Turning the discussion in an NES thread into a meandering philosophical dialog on the meaning of life is somewhat irritating, but lurker comments that compliment the update, give advice, or point out a mistake in the moderator's actions should be lauded.

So, welcoming new players like cleric did in the thread you quoted; So what? We work best in this form. A large influx of new players would mean OMGWTFBBQ11!!! disasters.

is Ok?

Cleric is not known for his diplomacy. :p

The point that I would say he's getting across is that most new players are welcome additions, but if you have a huge influx, then you're bound to have a few people who don't bother to read, don't bother to write, ruin someone's game, and all for essentially nothing--no one wants that.
 
No long, four page discussions about Rome and China in stNNESIII, NK? I thought that was the best part, not a deteriment!

;)
 
Final comment : no, not twisting, just simplifying.

and I am officially waiting for Harleqin, MjM, Stormbringer, Birdjaguar, Iggy, and Thlayli to update. Hopefully one of them will before I go to sleep. But I doubt it.
 
Final comment : no, not twisting, just simplifying.

Final comment: I am a newbie, not wanted. Facing the consequences.

Please: move the "cradle of civilization" back to the forum games section
 
Final comment: I am a newbie, not wanted. Facing the consequences.

Wanted

We just don't like it when someone barrels in shouting "change this and this and this OR SHUT UP!" :sad:

We want you to stay, and to feel welcomed. We're just offended you want to disrupt a tradition in these games and don't seem to want to do it in a fair way. We're trying to be civil. Here's the poll. You can ask Abaddon to forbid lurkers, as his word is law. There are better ways to do this.
 
!@$@#%!!!

ACTUALLY FINAL COMMENT: YOU said you are not wanted, not us. In fact some of us are attempting to convince you that it is the opposite (though I shall stop now after trying for about 15 posts). It is the same way that if you look for danger there will be, if you look for mistakes there will be, if you look for prejudice there will be. If you look for anti-newbie sentiments, there will be. But there are many more who oppose that sentiment, but as you are so caught up in your anti-newbie theory, you do not notice.

As well, all these people who argued did that because they disagreed, not because you were a newbie.
 
MY FINAL COMMENT:

For all intents and purposes I am a newbie. I can firsthand tell you there are no anti-newbie sentiments here (except for a poster by the name of Xen, but he hasn't been around in a while...long story). Come stay with us. Give us a chance.

/Nylan
 
I don't see why we are trying so hard to keep lorgen...since he doesn't want to be here. We get a healthy influx of intelligent, civil and decidedly unpretentious players all the time. lorgen doesn't seem to fit any of the above.

And if you don't like us lorgen, stop coming back.
 
Here's the long and short of moving the forum:

1.) There's no concrete evidence moving would be good or bad.
2.) There's a lot of circumstantial or tangential evidence both ways.
3.) Moving all of our threads and junk would require a new subforum in the Other Games section. We could not be dropped directly into Forum Games. At worst, we would need a subforum under Forum Games.
4.) Doing all of that takes Thunderfall's permission.
5.) If we were to go to Thunderfall we could not point out any real and practical benefits to moving. The best we could say (with certainty) is "We'd be better classified."
6.) The only way we could convince him to do such a thing would be to make stuff up.
7.) The only way to make stuff up is if everybody agrees to do so.
8.) There isn't a chance in hell of everyone agreeing on what to do.
9.) Should some group make stuff up and approach him, those uninvolved will riot and likely promptly hate that group.

In short, there isn't a solution to this problem, which is why I have been so quick to shoot it down the past two times it has been brought up. With that said, I was originally in favor of moving to Civ4 S&T, and I remain in favor of an eventual move somewhere. But it would take a lot of time and effort to come to a concensus, time and effort which has not been invested, thereby making it impossible.

And really? Everytime we get on this subject, it diverts from playing the games. So, unless someone would like to try and find a (very long and difficult but) reasonable way out of it and take the time to gather opinion and cajole and ration and argue and debate, lets drop this damn topic, because it's not productive at all.

I'd rather see the time spent on educating and training new players we do get than worrying about theoretical players we may or may not get, or being properly classified, or some other such crap that doesn't actually matter.

Moving is irrelevent; make the players that do come better. I am Symphony D. and I approve of this message.
 
I have already posted the discussion symphony linked me to when I asked why this forum was in the CIv 3 thread, and the welcome there was not exactly great. And when I disagree in having "uncles hanging over your shoulder commenting when you play chess", or lurkers in another tongue, I am attacjed in many ways. J something was especially rude. How am I to feel welcome here?
 
I don't see why we are trying so hard to keep lorgen...since he doesn't want to be here. We get a healthy influx of intelligent, civil and decidedly unpretentious players all the time. lorgen doesn't seem to fit any of the above.

And if you don't like us lorgen, stop coming back.

Exactly my point. I am not stupid, but since I am new, the Swissempire assumes I am and acts like I am. If I had licked swissempires boots/ass, he/she would have welcomed me. But this forum is dead, you actually have to try to hijack people from other forums, and everyone gets a greeting from these guys and leave.

And the reason I write back, even if I have left the game (which was moved from the games thread and here) is that I do not want to let faulty arguments stand.
 
That's it, I'm sick of the victimizing

If NESing was a gang, you'd be shot by now

We tried to let you join, we tried to be nice, and you start telling people to shut up OR ELSE. What are we supposed to do?

And last I checked, being civil was not brown nosing.
 
Simply have fun playing the game? I don't know, but that sounds like a pretty good way to get accepted here. Not charging in sabre rattling about how lurkers should 'SHUT UP!', or some such nonsense?
 
I apologize for any rudeness, but at the same time have repeatedly stated that none was intended.

Still look at what you have done - you have taken a group of people, demeaned them, demeaned us for not demeaning them, yelled at us, coerced power, threatened, spread libellous messages about us, and other things as well. Why should you expect us all to love you?
 
Yes, just play the game
 
How am I to feel welcome here?
boo-hoo. If you're just SOOOO offended, then leave. I really don't care, and i'm sure the others don't as well, if you think we're rude and you can't deal with us. We get lots of good new players all the time, and no one raises a stink, us or them. We're very accepting. Look at BirdNES. You're just an easily offended and quite fickle *****...cat.
 
And when I disagree in having "uncles hanging over your shoulder commenting when you play chess", or lurkers in another tongue, I am attacjed in many ways.

Well, I wasn't trying to attack you, more explain why I'd view this situation differently.
 
I know how we can end this in a civil manner lorgen.

Make a poll here in the NES forum whether or not lurkers should be allowed. That solves two problems. One, it ends the spam-fests you (and the rest of us) hate so much in the NESes, as the argument will move there.

Secondly, it will decide the matter once and for all. A game is played collectively by a group of people. If only one person hates lurkers, but the rest like them it's not very fair to the rest if that one gets what he wants, is it? If you're confident that no lurking is the way it's supposed to go, then set up the poll. If you're afraid the numbers will go against you bc of "old farts" like us (I've actually only been NESing since february), get some of the players of the NESes from the forum games to vote.

It's only fair, civil, and just. It will end this matter once and for all.

I don't think anyone hates lurkers. People hate lurkers telling them what to do. Watch and comment as much as you like, just don't make snide comments about others' playing styles.

It's neither fair, civil nor just; it's utterly useless. There's no way to "ban lurkers" anyway short of making the forum private, and I don't think anyone wants that.

It's really not that complicated. I don't see why you all have to get huffed up about it.
 
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