LucyDuke
staring at the clock
What are interesting things to do?
I guess I should say "things that interest me". They're not terribly interesting when I think about it! But they keep me from boredom.
What are interesting things to do?
My sentiments exactly. In college I was virtually never bored (except at 4AM during weeknights when everyone was asleep). But the "real world" is not like college. Your friends aren't right down the hall & even if they were, it wouldn't be the same.I'm lonely more than bored. There are plenty of things to do, but fewer people to do them with.
Virtually unlimited options does not necessarily bring happiness.
Check out Paradox of Choice on Google Video.
People think unfettered freedom brings happiness but oft-times it's just the opposite (discipline & responsibility bring it better, especially in conjunction w/ bonding & solidarity).
I find it to be at least somewhat true.That entire video he was assuming that correlation=causation, which is definitely not true.
Yeah, I agree.We have to remember thought that having choices isnt always something to make us unhappy, on the contrary, I think if utilized it an make someone more happy otherwise.
I find it to be at least somewhat true.
When I was 11 years old I had only two cassette tapes (Red Hot Chilli Peppers - Blood Sugar Sex Magik & Fresh Prince & Jazzy Jeff, forget the album name) and I was happier w/ them than I am w/ a whole Internet full of music. I was also happy in my college of only 1,200 students (I imagine I would have been less happy & fewer close friends in a bigger school though this is just speculation). Same thing w/ porn. Guys who watch tons of porn are less satisfied w/ their GF's because of the vast array of styles & talents these porno girls possess. Not to say lots of people, music or porn is bad, just that w/ great abundance comes the responsibility to not let it dilute your appreciation for the small things in life.
All authors tend to generalize, oversimply & eliminate points contrary to their thesis & Schwartz is no exception but I do think there is something special about simplicity & having one's path clear & narrow before you. Like when I used to go biking in Miami late @ night & got caught out in the rain, I'd be forced to ride home. Part of my was annoyed by it it but part of me enjoyed the fact that there was no if, &'s or buts about it; I just had to ride home & there were nothing left to think about, just to enjoy it (& I always did).
No but they have to. To sell books.The fact that authors do generalize doesn't meant that they should generalize
No but they have to. To sell books.
People want to see solid conclusions (& maybe "action steps" depending on the type of book) whether the actual evidence for said conclusions is actually solid or not.