In some ways, I'm a lot like many of the other posters here (esp. Flatlander): not part of a "religion" (disillusioned by them) but certain there is something "higher" ... something out there going on. I can't prove what it is, but I "know" it (not like knowing facts, but an inner knowing from coming in contact with something ... like stormerne said). And in the absence of proof, people will still end up believing SOMEthing, whether it's this God or that God or multiple Gods or no God at all. For me, it might as well be this as anything else.
I was raised United Methodist and was never comfortable with religion. For example, I always resisted the idea that Jesus was "Lord" (that was always just God to me) and that bodily resurrection was a requirement in faith. I've since gone through cycles of church and no church, going to whatever demononation my girlfriend believed, eventually teaching Sunday school and then refusing to attend at all.
Where I am now (because I'm constantly evolving as I learn more and come in contact with more) is best summarized by the book series "Conversations with God". I should point out that I did not learn my beliefs from these books, but rather these words (supposedly from God to an average person) confirmed what I always believed ... many things my religion had taught me to "stuff" were reawakened and up for discussion again ... things I felt were normal but I had been taught to feel guilty about were allowed to be challenged ... so far this is the only view of God I've come across that makes complete sense to me (I was nodding and saying "yeah, I knew I knew that" and "I've thought/said that before" all the way through it). Even if one doesn't believe it came directly from "God", it's still a very cool view of God (or whatever we choose to call It) and the Universe, IMNSHO.
Summary of my personal beliefs: I believe we are all one and all a part of God and that, as God, we created this physical place so we could experience, with senses we don't have in the ethereal, the unconditional love that we are naturally. As such, we are essentially playing a virtual reality game (that we can come back to in different forms again and again) for the sake of experience, as opposed to trying to figure out what things God likes and doesn't like so we can avoid eternal suffering.
I feel that, although we are judgmental and many times obsessed with right and wrong, God is not, so there is no judgment and divine preference and Hell ... just returning to God when we either permanently screw up this body, or wear it out over time. If we were created in the Creator's image, it is that we have the same ability to create whatever we want in our lives.
Many people don't like this idea ... that there is no right and wrong laid down by God ... that without fear of Hell, people would do whatever horrible things they want. I simply disagree. As we can see, those of us here without religion are quite naturally trying our best to live good lives, however we have each defined that. We didn't need religion to do it, but if that's the way you choose to access the same thing, that's fine, too.
I feel those who harm their fellow men & women have just lost touch with the inner knowing that we are all connected ... they feel separate and lonely, unloved and callous towards others ... and religion won't help "keep those people in line" anyway.
Like others here, I have a hard time believing in a God who is supposed to be "good" who would allow or cause any everlasting harm or torment on any soul for any reason. I also have a hard time believing that God could ever be offended, that anything divine would desire (much less request) any worship, and that God would create something possible that he would send us to Hell for (entrapment).
But, even so, this view allows every other belief about God to co-exist without problem. We're all making it up ... so I believe what I believe and you are free to believe what you believe ... and we'll all be alright in the end. I say we ought to have some fun doing it together!
[EDIT: Fix the spelling mistakes I noticed (among the many I'm sure I didn't).]
Peace and good wishes to all.
Spiff
