Valkrionn
The Hamster King
Before I quote anyone, let me give my own opinion... I am quite vehemently against this.
As others have said, we are not children. As others have said, the context of a word is important, and radically changes the meaning. No automated filter will pick up on that context, and thus any automated filter will be heavy handed.
I go out of my way to avoid cursing on this forum. Even when being actively flamed (which has happened several times in the past) I go out of my way to avoid it unless I feel I cannot make my point without it.
I still despise this change. When it was simply smileyed out, it could be ignored quite simply, leaving me able to post and the choice of infract or not up to the moderators. Now, it is thrown in your face; This alone makes it far more repugnant to me.
So yes, I most certainly would rather be allowed to make the post and then be infracted, than have it block my post. I have never been infracted in my history posting on this site (though admittedly came close); Context matters.
In my opinion, it would be far more desirable to approach the issue like adults and use a karma system as Afforress described, or simply have the choice of censorship be a personal option.
Blocking words does nothing. It does nothing. It can be bypassed, it can be ignored, it can be manipulated, or you can get creative and flame using entirely proper, but extremely insulting, language. This filter does nothing to improve the atmosphere of the site, never has, and never will; It is simply something to remind us that we are children.
As I said, this filter does nothing to prevent impolite posting. I am quite capable of ripping into someone in an entirely polite manner, with a smile on my face. Capability does not mean I will do so, nor that I should, but this filter does nothing whatsoever to prevent this. It simply means flaming takes more creativity... And thus becomes more fun for those who do so regularly.
Having cursewords starred out does not make a post more impolite. Frankly, if I were to desire to curse and was unable to due to a filter of this sort, I would go out of my way to be as impolite as possible. Censorship of such a heavy handed nature is never a good solution.
Again, context is key. Context is always key. If a post with cursing had both the words starred out (for those with that option on) and was automatically sent to moderators, who could actually examine the context and tone and decide whether to infract or not, I'd be okay with it; I have no qualms about wanting to prevent flaming. My issues are when it is done in such a heavy handed manner.
Once again: The removal of curse words in no way increases the general politeness of posts, and may well prove detrimental to that effort. Anyone above the age of 12 should be quite capable of being as insulting as they wish without needing to rely on such words, while some of us use them in everyday speech without thinking twice (I am one such person, I simply have no desire to have that associated with my modding.
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Honestly, the best solution is a karma system, or rating system, or however you want it. When posts can be rated up/down, reported to moderators (with false reports being infracted heavily, abuses of the rating being infracted, etc), you tend to find things become far more polite almost immediately.
As others have said, we are not children. As others have said, the context of a word is important, and radically changes the meaning. No automated filter will pick up on that context, and thus any automated filter will be heavy handed.
I go out of my way to avoid cursing on this forum. Even when being actively flamed (which has happened several times in the past) I go out of my way to avoid it unless I feel I cannot make my point without it.
I still despise this change. When it was simply smileyed out, it could be ignored quite simply, leaving me able to post and the choice of infract or not up to the moderators. Now, it is thrown in your face; This alone makes it far more repugnant to me.
So yes, I most certainly would rather be allowed to make the post and then be infracted, than have it block my post. I have never been infracted in my history posting on this site (though admittedly came close); Context matters.
In my opinion, it would be far more desirable to approach the issue like adults and use a karma system as Afforress described, or simply have the choice of censorship be a personal option.
Blocking words does nothing. It does nothing. It can be bypassed, it can be ignored, it can be manipulated, or you can get creative and flame using entirely proper, but extremely insulting, language. This filter does nothing to improve the atmosphere of the site, never has, and never will; It is simply something to remind us that we are children.
It wouldn't make me happy. I don't see why a compromise should be reached. I don't see why I should have to simply ignore impolite posting rather than have it banned, anymore than I don't see why I should have to simply ignore racist posts, or flaming posts, or any other form of post that does not meet the standards of the forum, rather than having those things banned.
As I said, this filter does nothing to prevent impolite posting. I am quite capable of ripping into someone in an entirely polite manner, with a smile on my face. Capability does not mean I will do so, nor that I should, but this filter does nothing whatsoever to prevent this. It simply means flaming takes more creativity... And thus becomes more fun for those who do so regularly.
Having cursewords starred out does not make a post more impolite. Frankly, if I were to desire to curse and was unable to due to a filter of this sort, I would go out of my way to be as impolite as possible. Censorship of such a heavy handed nature is never a good solution.
Again, context is key. Context is always key. If a post with cursing had both the words starred out (for those with that option on) and was automatically sent to moderators, who could actually examine the context and tone and decide whether to infract or not, I'd be okay with it; I have no qualms about wanting to prevent flaming. My issues are when it is done in such a heavy handed manner.
Starring out words still leaves the implied meaning. Which still leaves the impoliteness. Removing the word altogether automatically makes a post less impolite.
Once again: The removal of curse words in no way increases the general politeness of posts, and may well prove detrimental to that effort. Anyone above the age of 12 should be quite capable of being as insulting as they wish without needing to rely on such words, while some of us use them in everyday speech without thinking twice (I am one such person, I simply have no desire to have that associated with my modding.

Honestly, the best solution is a karma system, or rating system, or however you want it. When posts can be rated up/down, reported to moderators (with false reports being infracted heavily, abuses of the rating being infracted, etc), you tend to find things become far more polite almost immediately.