The military took out a great many innocent people, and their tactics included murdering the relatives of suspected communists, burning their villages, etc. Soeharto was in charge at that point, and actively encouraged the purges, even though he did very little personal direction.
Yeah I know it did that. It was fairly endemic in most countries after an attempted coup attempt [or whatever it was].
Yes, corruption's a given, but Soeharto excelled at it. Just because it's a given in Indonesia, doesn't mean he doesn't lose points for going along with it, particularly when it damages his ability to run the country. After all, aid packages could be much better spent on infrastructure than Soeharto's wife's wardrobe.
The old joke that the most corrupt people are sitting on the anti-corruption commission holds. Sure the money would have been better used, that's a given, but the corruption did not prejudice the survival of the state, or significantly harm it. He got away with $12 billion US or so in the entirety of his reign, how much did he get alone from the Yanks?
I agree with you there. Just don't think he qualifies as great. Successful, and relatively good for his country, compared to what came before and after, but he wasn't spectacularly good at his job.
In a massively ethnically diverse state with little loyalty to the central government, and with little shared culture. The simple fact that the nation survived as a sole entity, and can now progress towards democracy and a well functioning one is a marvel unto itself. I personally think he was spectacularly successful in a great many respects, simply to have kept the state together was a monumental effort. He's not the best world leader ever, but he would be close to the top of post colonial leaders of a colonial state.