Here is my admittedly unscientific viewpoint on whether things could have been different: Until we know for sure that there is no possibility of a "multiverse" existing, it's an intriguing thing to think about. Maybe there's another universe in which I just drank cranberry juice instead of wildberry juice, or in which I'm not posting right now, but instead did the sensible thing and went to bed (since it's nearly 2 am here), and everything else is the same.
Maybe there's another universe where things are so different that life never arose. Or maybe it did, but it's vastly different than anything we can imagine.
Universes where history went in a significantly different direction? Fascinating. I had a history instructor in college who could never fathom why it would be interesting to think about. I told him it was something that was fun to imagine and speculate about, and he just shook his head. He didn't get it.
@Narz: I would think that some of your choices were probably a close call, though, right? You might easily have made a different decision if some tiny thing had influenced your decision another way.
Some people think that every time someone makes a decision, another version of reality is split off into a different history (or universe, if you prefer), so that there is a history where the decision went one way and a history where it went a different way.
So I don't spend a lot of time fretting about all the things I could have done or owned or whatever... because it's not impossible that there could be some version of reality where these things did indeed happen. All we can do is make the best of the reality we're in right now, since nobody has, as far as we know, managed to invent a time machine or other way of getting to these hypothetical alternate realities.