Just to clarify, is this the current discussion on where to settle?
We could also adjust the choke city into two cities. One just south of the gold, which would grab the gold and food tile and the second city so that it grabs both the cow and clams. I'm hesitant about both sites, but it looks like we're going to get squeezed fairly quickly in regards to land soon.
I agree on grabbing the choke point with our first settler (the current one in the queue). We need to stop his expansion quick. A protective civ isn't one I'm really wanting to deal with. One note, if we have horses we may want to consider doing an early rush before he can build up his defenses.

We could also adjust the choke city into two cities. One just south of the gold, which would grab the gold and food tile and the second city so that it grabs both the cow and clams. I'm hesitant about both sites, but it looks like we're going to get squeezed fairly quickly in regards to land soon.
I agree on grabbing the choke point with our first settler (the current one in the queue). We need to stop his expansion quick. A protective civ isn't one I'm really wanting to deal with. One note, if we have horses we may want to consider doing an early rush before he can build up his defenses.