Senethro
Overlord
I am not simply pro-choice, full stop (and have here inclined toward certain dimensions of what you would regard as the pro-life position), because, in addition to wanting abortion to be safe and legal, I would like it to be as rare as it can possibly be. Encouraging a mode of thinking about sex in which sexually active adults realize that their actions could start a biochemical process leading to human life (if you must have it phrased that way) and are responsible about doing so only if they are prepared to nurture that life seems to me a step toward increasing the rarity of abortion, and so seems to me a mindset worth arguing for.
I rather suspect better sex education, a more open attitude and easy/cheap provision of the contraceptive technologies available would be more successful.
When you regard the thought that we might as a culture hold people accountable in this way as being tantamount to punishing them, that line of thinking seems to me and others here as bespeaking a kind of cavalier, consequences-be-damned kind of thinking. It's that that some of us would like to resist.
Or we could just use the technologies available.