Feminism

As long as its consensual and openly communicated, sure. People want to screw around sometimes. Serial monogamy, y'know.

Hey, I think they should be equally as free and equally as liable as their feminine counterparts. Suggestions?

Aside from thinking that killing developing humans is an acceptable consequence of wanting to screw around sometimes, I think we're probably pretty close to starting at the same place. It's just an awful big thing to deviate on, since we seem to deviate on it. And we might, just might, if we were to understand each other cleanly, still think the other person is an inhuman monster. Eh?
 
Yet a surprisingly large number of women choose to keep the child even in that situation. The numbers bounce everywhere, but if you try and select out virulent sounding voices, the low end of estimates seem to indicate about 1/3 of women with readily available access to abortions bear and keep the children of rape. ~20% choose adoption. Nothing about this issue is simple enough to reduce to a sentence. :undecide:
Or an internet discussion.

I recently made an agreement with myself. Any comment on this not made with the amount of nuance which goes beyond the limited scope of a messageboard discussion should not be made. This is an insight I gained from a less than on par conversation we had (high five!).

So I just want to thank you for that. :) Your comments, lightly sprinkled with withdrawel symptoms giving it just enough umph to make me pause, made me realise it's incredibly hard to make a succinct statement on abortion which doesn't make me go hmmmm....

Doesn't stop me from posting inapropriate tubes though


Link to video.
 
things to make U "uhummmmmmmm" very hot !
 
I don't think I ever apologized for that exchange Ziggy. It's overdue. I'm sorry.

I don't know, this general topic hits just close enough to home to draw in about everything that makes me love and hate this existence. It refuses to be universally ugly enough for me to write it off entirely and it fails to be kind enough to ever stop hurting unless deliberately and selectively tuned out.
 
I think I have an ideal political option - there's everybody equal ;) hahaha
 
I don't think I ever apologized for that exchange Ziggy. It's overdue. I'm sorry.
No need for that. Apreciate the gesture though.

I valued those comments for making me stop and think over being offended by them. I understand the emotions which sparked them. I recognized the point you made. Had you made it less colourful I might have missed them. Had you made it less emotional I might not have paid attention.

Besides, when I dish out the snark I should also take it without complaint.
 
You seem to be doing the same sort of thing. Rewording and re-emphasising the stated position and then insisting it doesn't make sense. I don't know why. It's not my position at all and yet I can comprehend it perfectly well. One last time and then I give up, here is how this stance makes sense: <snip>

You misunderstand me. I'm not trying to insist the argument is completely illogical, just sexist and vindictive. It is either about punishing women for having sex, or it is arbitrary and spurious.

Here's what I'm saying. The argument says life must be protected, except when there's rape. Why? Because women didn't choose to be raped, and it would be unjust to force them to deal with the consequences thereof. In other cases, life can still be protected - but only because we can now blame the woman for making the choice. The value of life is therefore not the overarching value at play. It is overarched when it cannot be shown that the woman can be held responsible.

Thus we must conclude that the argument has as its basis the punishing of women for having consensual sex. This is the position I take umbrage with.

The argument does NOT qualify as a matter of supposed competing values because A) There is no basis for measuring and analyzing competing values, i.e. a utilitarian ethic where we could calculate the expected utility of giving birth vs. having an abortion; and B) Because the argument inherently involves the competing values being overarched, as I said, by a third concern, thus showing there to be no weighing of the scales involved. Life is important, choice is unimportant; but consequences for actions are the keystone.

I do not appreciate an argument for abortion based thus in punishing women, sorry.*

*Aside: Even if you advocate men paying child support, well, not only is that an incomplete solution - but say it was possible to implement perfectly, still this entire argument hinges on punishing people, only now it's about punishing both men and women. That's 100% of the human race you're screwing over, rather than a meager half.
 
but consequences for actions are the keystone.

Imagine someone invoking anything as ridiculous as that in considering a moral issue!
 
You misunderstand me. I'm not trying to insist the argument is completely illogical, just sexist and vindictive. It is either about punishing women for having sex, or it is arbitrary and spurious.

Here's what I'm saying. The argument says life must be protected, except when there's rape. Why? Because women didn't choose to be raped, and it would be unjust to force them to deal with the consequences thereof. In other cases, life can still be protected - but only because we can now blame the woman for making the choice. The value of life is therefore not the overarching value at play. It is overarched when it cannot be shown that the woman can be held responsible.

Thus we must conclude that the argument has as its basis the punishing of women for having consensual sex. This is the position I take umbrage with.

I don't see how holding someone responsible and accountable for their informed decisions is a bad thing. You can paint it as "punishing" if you like, but it's not a punishment, it's an insistence on taking responsibility for the consequence of your actions. It would only be a punishment if you were just forcing someone to deal with the consequences for the sake of it, rather than because you think life is valuable and it's society's duty to protect it within reason.

I also have no idea how the general principle of "a person should be accountable for their actions" is in any way sexist. In this particular instance it obbiously affects women more than men because they are the ones with wombs, but who exactly are you blaming for that?

There is no basis for measuring and analyzing competing values, i.e. a utilitarian ethic where we could calculate the expected utility of giving birth vs. having an abortion

So are you saying it's impossible and meaningless to try and tackle any issue where it isn't possible to rely on cold, hard, objective numbers? But doesn't society and the law do this all the time? Any individual person is perfectly at liberty to, and usually does, form opinions on such things all the time, whether or not A is worse than B is worse then C, regardless of what those things are or how subjective the decision making process is. If there's broad consensus on those opinions across a majority of society the bingo, you have a law.
 
"Responsibility, consequences, blame and complicity that falls mostly on women are not sexist." A Dude 2014

Don't be a dick. Women have wombs and incubate and birth babies. This is a biological fact that's just a given, not sexism. Or are you suggesting that being responsible and accountable for your actions is a good thing in general, but in situations where only (or largely) women are affected, then that principle should be waived? Isn't that just what they term "benevolent sexism"?
 
I also have no idea how the general principle of "a person should be accountable for their actions" is in any way sexist. In this particular instance it obbiously affects women more than men because they are the ones with wombs, but who exactly are you blaming for that?

I'm blaming you for saying we shouldn't give compensatory consideration to people who got the burdened side of the see saw. Biology isn't an excuse.
 
Don't be a dick. Women have wombs and incubate and birth babies. This is a biological fact that's just a given, not sexism. Or are you suggesting that being responsible and accountable for your actions is a good thing in general, but in situations where only (or largely) women are affected, then that principle should be waived? Isn't that just what they term "benevolent sexism"?
Being responsible and accountable for one's actions is always a good thing.
That principle is in no way at odds with enabling women with unwanted pregnancy to have an abortion.
 
Or are you suggesting that being responsible and accountable for your actions is a good thing in general, but in situations where only (or largely) women are affected, then that principle should be waived?
No. We wave that principle in general. If someone is driving drunk, has an accident we wave that principle. Lots of other occasions were we do just that.

Being held responsible is a really poor argument.
 
I think TF had the right idea.
 
Because comparing what is essentially a clump of cells to actual human beings isn't offensive or demeaning whatsoever.

Why don't you go the full route and call everyone who promotes a woman's right to choose what she does with her body a nazi? We all know you want, so why don't you have some faith in your convictions and make that final step C_H.
If you read any embryology Textbook it is always argued that from the point of conception that a new human being is created and that life is worth saving. You are ignoring ll the scientific evidence. Also if i were to show pictures of the remains of abortion I will get infracted because it will show tiny body parts that have been separated from the rest of the body. The only way you can get an unborn child out of the womb is by dismembering it, since the natural way is for the females body to dialate and expand to allow the child through. The irony of current laws is that moments before delivery it is legal to take the life away, but a few cm's difference and it is illegal, as shown in the Gosnells trial. An unborn child is not simply a "clump of cells" as the abortion crowd likes to be erroneous about.
And thus we come full-circle back to rape, and now you know why feminists get so frustrated.
No, it can't. If abortion is murder then you don't kill person B because person A was raped.

This reveals another aspect of the pro-life sides interest in regulating action. They "forgive" a woman if her sexual activity was involuntary.
I agree, I think it's entirely possible to convincingly argue against abortion in general while still maintaining it should be legal in case of rape.

I'm just pointing out that some pro-life groups do indeed take their opposition to the full logical conclusion: all abortion should be banned, period.
So why are you about punishing the innocent? What crime did the child commit to have his life taken away?
The argument goes something like this:

-A fetus has rights and killing it is wrong;
-If you engage in consensual sex you know there is a risk it may result in pregnancy. This risk can be virtually eliminated with proper precaution, but it will always be there. Having sex is accepting this risk (whether it is big or almost non-existent depends on how careful the partners are). Both partners must deal with the consequences of their voluntary actions and the risks they took; there is no justification for trumping the fetus's rights.
-In case of rape there was no choice involved, and as such the woman cannot be forced to "deal with the consequences" of her acts. While the abortion is still regarded as regrettable, and may even be discouraged, ultimately the mother cannot be forced to host a fetus that is there through no action of her own.

Agree or disagree, it's not logically incoherent.



Yep, but in their view protecting life trumps "unfairness". Life is always unfair anyway.
1 is correct, then in 3 you seem to have that as if it overrides number 1. No one has the right to override number one in that we are talking about innocent life.
I don't think the law is supposed to stop people from doing what anybody considers morally abhorrent; the law is supposed to, as far as this is possible, 'work towards the good of society'. It is not designed to enforce morality.
Every single law on the books is reflecting morality. The laws against murder are saying that murder is wrong.
It's the most horrible people who will not compromise. Like the slavers who started the Civil War.
Yep, they didn't compromise on the issue that we should respect all people as human beings regardless of skin colour, just like how the pro-abortion crowd won't recognise the legal rights of the unborn to life just like everyone else. Thus violating the UN declaration of Human Rights.
The presumption that a fetus constitutes a party is not a given IMO.
Again that was the same issue ewe have with slavery and what jews were considered
As we all know a fetuses rights override's a womans, this isn't at all disturbing or inherently misogynistic, reducing an entire gender's reproductive rights to cater to an entity that isn't even born yet.

It's almost as if they believe women primarily exist to give birth, screw their individual agency
The fact that women can get pregnant violates what we know about the immune system since all rights should have the foetus rejected by the mother since it is a foreign object and different from the mother, but we know that the immune system does reject it and actually the female's body actually gives it nourishment and protects from harm. The women's body does what it is supposed to do when it's gets pregnant, and that is gives the child a home for nine months for it to grow and be ready for life outside of the womb.
Its not being a jerk to try to point out that you're proposing something radical and alien to our culture. You don't get to discount personhood when its convenient to do so. If it is a person when conceived through consensual sex it doesn't stop being one when conceived by rape. Knowingly ending a persons life is often considered evil in our culture.

Also: At what point in fetal development of a child conceived by rape does abortion stop being permissible? And why? When does personhood increase such that it overtakes autonomy again?
Well the body already has autonomy in the decision since it normally accepts that foetus to allow it to grow full term, or if there is a problem with the child in the womb, then it rejects it and miscarries. The bod knows what it is doing when it either accepts or rejects the child on it's own.
What if the couple had decided they didn't want to reproduce tho? That the economic situation was poor, job prospects uncertain and their parents haven't warmed up to the idea etc.

In modern society there are plenty of options to stop you from becoming pregnant that those who do get pregnant are doing so willingly. There is no excuse to say that we weren't ready, when the options are available to stop pregnancy before the stage of fertilisation. It is just a cop out for irresponsibility.
 
It's quite clear to me that one can take reasonable precautions against pregnancy and still end up pregnant. The presumption that it must be female irresponsibilty is pretty ridiculous.

In addition, I'm not impressed by appeals to slavery or Jews or other abused minorities because those minorities all possess the same sort of minds as I do, something Fetuses do not.
 
Every single law on the books is reflecting morality. The laws against murder are saying that murder is wrong.

Well, no - it just happens that we consider murder to be wrong and worth making illegal. It is illegal to drive in broad daylight with a broken headlight, but I don't think anybody would say that would be morally wrong were it not illegal. Similarly, it is not illegal to cheat at sports, though it is clearly morally wrong. One might argue that it is morally wrong to disobey the law, but that is different from arguing that the law coincides with morality.
 
So laws executing gays in other countries, criminalising sodomy and homosexual relations are now suddenly "moral"? What?
 
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