But we will not get most of Zulu land...
From what Ot4e says, the price for peace with CivFr will be that THEY get most of Zulu lands, not us. This has not changed from the beginning when I said we had two choices. Those choices have remained the same.
1. Invade and defeat CivFr
or
2. Give CivFr what they want (majority of Zulu lands)
If we can't/won't do #1, then we must do #2 (pun intended

). It will feel good to do #2 and relieve ourselves of this burden.
Anyway this is the same as what I have been repeating like a broken record until someone listens