Even with my inefficient and clumsy playstyle, I still managed to steal two holy cities and Shaka's capital! He is now reduced to one city on a tiny island, and another overwhelmed by Mansa Musa's culture.
Building lots and lots of Catapults was the trick. The Swordsmen and Axemen were mostly useless against an Aggressive leader, and in Warlords, Catapults can kill units.
The Pyramids "failgold" kept my research slider afloat throughout the war, along with the gold I got from capturing cities. I think I may partially build the Pyramids on most subsequent playthroughs.
I hardly ever go for the Oracle, because you have to research less useful religious technologies in order to build it. Then again, many of the top players take advantage of it, so the rewards must outweigh the turns spent researching and building it.
Napoleon is a bit miffed that I "declared war on his friend", but they followed different religions anyway. He also hates Mansa Musa more than me. I'm still concerned about him "having enough on his hands right now". Mansa Musa was Confucian, but he founded and converted to Christianity. The Jewish alliance between Napoleon, Cyrus, and Isabella is still going strong. Yet I still do not have a city with Judaism. What are you doing, Isabella? My character can't join her "one true faith" if she doesn't send me any missionaries!
My save file was taken immediately after the war, so I'd like to know what to do next. Epic is much more forgiving than Normal when it comes to waging war, since your units aren't obsolete as quickly. How many units should I build for an attack stack on Normal before I go to war?
Should I plan to attack Tokugawa soon, or peacefully build until I get Cossacks? Which technology path would be the best way to get Cossacks quickly?