I load a saved game about once a day and then only because I can't play it though in a single sitting. I'm a glutton for punishment so if I screw up I enjoy the challenge of setting things right again.
As for whether or not it's cheating, who cares? Really, if you do that in a single player game because it's fun for you, knock yourself out. I prefer to live with my mistakes because that's what makes the game fun for me. It's a single player game (otherwise you wouldn't be re-loading in the first place) so you can't cheat, well you can cheat yourself out of the gratification you get when you overcome your mistakes or impossible odds but what one person defines as gratification is another person's frustration.
So go forth and enjoy the game, re-load a save if you want to and don't if it bothers you. Ignore all the other people that are trying to tell you how you should or shouldn't enjoy your game. As long as you're having fun nothing else matters.
As for whether or not it's cheating, who cares? Really, if you do that in a single player game because it's fun for you, knock yourself out. I prefer to live with my mistakes because that's what makes the game fun for me. It's a single player game (otherwise you wouldn't be re-loading in the first place) so you can't cheat, well you can cheat yourself out of the gratification you get when you overcome your mistakes or impossible odds but what one person defines as gratification is another person's frustration.
So go forth and enjoy the game, re-load a save if you want to and don't if it bothers you. Ignore all the other people that are trying to tell you how you should or shouldn't enjoy your game. As long as you're having fun nothing else matters.