I am not. I think you're reading that into what I'm saying because you are doing precisely the opposite, treating rich people as greedy leeches.
If I'm sick, I can either ask people nicely for help, or I can get mad at them and call them greedy for not helping me. The first option is more likely to get me help, the second is more likely to make that person call me a bum. We see this exact phenomenon at the societal level of debating about whether or not to implement universal health care. I think it's a pretty spot on comparison to make.
Yeah, but when you're sick and have proper healthcare, then you don't have to ask nicely in the first place.
You're again making an argument that basically boils down to: "Be grateful that people
That's not the flaw in my argument, that is my argument. You keep saying that there is a difference, but you haven't shown the difference. Prove me wrong. How do they change the dynamics of the situation? Society is only as real as the individual interactions that make it up.
But if that same rich person pays for your house through their taxes you aren't grateful. It's the same thing. Why the dissonance?
I think I have shown the difference.
But to spell it out more clearly:
I think both are ultimately the same thing, we just think about them differently because there is a person involved, and our relationship with that person complicates the issue.
Think about it like this:
If you see a billionaire give 10 dollars to a homeless person, would you think: "What a great person!"? I certainly wouldn't. I'd think: "What? That's all you do? Couldn't you like... help him get off the streets?"
But if you were the homeless person who is given 10 dollars, would you not still feel thankful?
That's how involvement taints the issue, dragging it to a personal level just makes it more about guilt than the actual situation involved.
Do you really think this way? Is this a standard that you hold yourself to? Do you distribute your wealth to those less fortunate than you? Are you being greedy when you buy yourself nice things that you don't need?
Well... yeah. Given that I'm working a low-paying job, I'm not even in the position that I could distribute large parts of "my wealth", because I don't have much "wealth" to spend on luxury items to begin with. Most of my earnings are spent on maintenance, the only thing that I would call "decadent" that I've bought in the last 5 years or so was a drawing tablet. And maybe parts for my pc that I'm keeping somewhat usable if those count. I do still put a part of my income to the side and give it to charity once a year and have done volunteer work back when I wasn't able to work an actual job, so... yeah, I'd say I'm living up to my own standards.
But that's not even the point, a decadent lifestyle is mostly fine with me, after all, those things still fuel the pockets of people who created that stuff. It's when people use their money for nothing other than playing markets to siphon more wealth on top of what they're already not spending on anything anyway that I have a problem with.
Imagine how different things would look if society could be if people didn't use stacks of money too large to spend as status symbols and instead saw spreading that money around as a good thing.
Once people start doing that, or society actually changes to a system that is built to generate social mobility and changes for everybody I'll agree that people should be grateful, as long as welfare is a tool to keep people poor, I'll remain confident about saying that that's an unreasonable thing to ask people to be grateful for being provided with basic living standards.