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Both Fair And Balanced
To me, that is fairly minor, especially when you consider how many Americans characterize having any sex outside of marriage as being adultery. Some states still word their adultery laws that way as well. I think it is actually much closer to that form of sin than cheating on your wife, since the latter typically entails the deliberate breaking of vows.I don't know if it would be fair to describe it as something "most Christians" consider a "fairly minor sin." I think most would probably rank it at perhaps adultery level of sin, perhaps slightly less -- actually fairly serious, but not really warranting judicial sanction.
I don't think there is much question that those gays who are Christians either don't consider it to be a sin at all, or they think it is an extremely minor one. And they typically belong to churches where that is the prevailing attitude amongst the parishioners.I think a good part of the reaction is due to the fact that it's a matter of lifestyle. If you cheat on your wife, or steal a library book, or whatever (To give a range of possible sins from serious to less so) then it's just an action -- it may be indicative of a lifestyle of adultery or petty theft, but perhaps not, and a lot of people who cheat and steal nevertheless believe that such conduct is generally wrong. In contrast, homosexual sex is generally part of a lifestyle which often includes the acceptance of sin as non-sin. Because it's pretty hard to not have the sex that you want, and to accept that want you want is morally wrong to get, not many gay people genuinely and permanently renounce it.
And as I mentioned above, many Christians live with unmarried sex partners in sin, or they perpetually hold grudges against neighbors, or continually covet their neighbor's property, or frequently cuss, etc. etc.
I think most Christians are rather ambivalent about matters concerning homosexuals. I think this is another case of the tail wagging the dog. It is being spearheaded by the same group which is so opposed to allowing gays to openly serve in the military, and who supported sodomy laws to even make such practices illegal.Fair enough. As I said, I'm fairly ambivalent on the legal issues involved; I can't really get behind either the status quo or what most people would like to change it to.