vyyt
Deity
Hello, I'm having a problem where, even though all of the mods stated as incompatible were disabled, my game immediately closes itself moments after I finish setting up a game.
Wow, that's a lot of mods!!!! Do they all work together even without CP/CBP???
I don't know how to say this without sounding rude, but do you really expect that anyone will be able to help you with the compatibility of the million mods you are trying to run together with CP/CBP? Even when the single mods are tried and listed as compatible, it does not mean that they will work together in combination.
Ok, now that I have insulted you, let's provide some help

First of all, please specify if you are asking about compatibility with CP only. If yes, then you should be fine with vast majority of non-dll mods.
If, however, you are trying with CBP, then it becomes much more complicated and I doubt that anyone will be able to help. Moreover even mods not causing CTDs may not be balanced with CBP, so I would strongly suggest getting rid of the balance changing ones anyway.
Sadly, I have not had much chance to play recently, so some things may have changed in the meantime, but on the first glance, I suspect these guys will be causing big problems:
- Cities in development - I recall JFD was still working on the compatibility?
- Extended religion diplomacy - don't know what it is, but looks like something conflicting with the CBP diplo
- Enlightenment era - not sure - see this thread: http://forums.civfanatics.com/showthread.php?t=561717
- City defense re-balance - don't know what it is, but looks like something conflicting with the CBP cities / combat system
- More happiness - don't know what it is, but looks like something conflicting with the CBP happiness system
- Lancers to cavalry - dtto
- City limits - already included????
- Smart AI - this is a DLL mod, moreover, it is already incorporated in CP - see the list - this is the first one you should remove
- Better AI - is it DLL? I suspect it will mess with CBP changes anyway - get rid of it!
If you are still getting CTDs after removing the above offenders, then I suggest to start with CP/CBP only and then adding more mods - maybe not 1 by 1, but a few at the time. If you try this tedious way, please report back and I will update the lists with your findings.
Good luck!
P.S.: Really, sometimes less is more. Even if you make these work together, I doubt you will have a balanced gameplay experience