Phydeaux - I wasn't trying to argue for either side, I was just pointing out the flaws in the basic premise of both sides, that (1) the universe or (2) God needs an explanation outside itself/himself.
Remember - the universe as a whole is outside science, just as much as God is. As I argued above, science looks at patterns. It needs to look at a number of objects to derive what those patterns are. But there is only one universe - or at least, we only know about one. Therefore, the universe - as a single object - is not within the realm of science. Only the objects within it are. Therefore, nobody can appeal to science when saying that the universe must be caused or must not. It's just not a scientific matter, any more than God is.
I don't want to get rid of God at all. I just want to get rid of bad arguments and poor reasoning - whether for God or against him. I agree with you that God can be here without a cause, and I have absolutely no problem with that idea. In fact it puzzles me that so many people do seem to have such a problem with it. But I disagree that God is the one thing that can explain how the universe came to be. We don't know whether that fact requires an explanation at all, let alone what kind of explanation would be appropriate.