[Soapbox] Being "naturally" gay

I already explained why the "gay uncle" hypothesis is a weak one, especially in a place like America where its more of a individualistic society.

I'm not sure America has had enough of an impact on the human race, evolutionarily speaking, to have a significant effect on the the percentage of people born gay.

Another possible explanation for why being gay has persisted is that historically speaking, gay people were shunned. So to avoid things like public shaming, jail, etc they'd keep it to themselves, marry someone of the opposite sex, and have children. That way it would appear that they were heterosexual.
 
Another possible explanation for why being gay has persisted is that historically speaking, gay people were shunned. So to avoid things like public shaming, jail, etc they'd keep it to themselves, marry someone of the opposite sex, and have children. That way it would appear that they were heterosexual.

I mentioned this before, I think it is one of the main reasons.

I also think bi-sexual traits have an effect as well.


Overall you have to remember the puzzle is not about if being gay is reproductively useful but if having gay genes is. And that's likely a combination of many factors. It's probably a balancing act so a society with too many gay genes will select for having less whereas a society with not enough will select for more.

You may have some points there but I think the probabilities still favor the eventual weeding out of gay genes if gay people weren't forced by society to act straight.

The thing is that if you are gay, you may be helping your non-gay relative spread his genes, but there's no guarantee he has any gay genes, whereas its 100% sure you have them. Therefore by helping him instead of reproducing yourself, you are still most likely reducing the probability of these gay genes passing on.
 
But for biological purposes, it was huge implications. Because being "Naturally" gay would be an inferior trait and not one that is conductive to passing on your genes to the next generation.
My gay father has two straight sons who have no children.
 
You may have some points there but I think the probabilities still favor the eventual weeding out of gay genes if gay people weren't forced by society to act straight.
I disagree. Even if it was a significant mitigating factor removing it would not weed out gay genes. Remember that being gay involves many genes and they probably have other benefits. If the drawbacks of being gay increases then the amount of gay genes in the population will decrease. When that occurs because gay genes are rarer the risk of being gay from having any particular gay gene will also decrease. There will come a point where the positive aspects of having a small number of gay genes again is in equilibrium with drawbacks of being gay.
 
I think all these questions about "if being gay is genetic, why hasn't the gay gene bred itself out of the population yet?" are missing a very important aspect of this. Namely, that being openly gay only became socially acceptable a very, very short time ago in the timeline of human evolution. Until just a few decades ago, almost all gay people probably did get married and have children, because that's what was socially expected of them. The gay genes could easily have survived this long simply because people who were gay procreated for reasons of peer pressure.

And of course nowadays we're living in the age of surrogacy and increasingly impressive genetic manipulations, so there's no reason to assume it should die out now since gay people can increasingly have all kinds of kids that are genetically theirs without having to actually have sex with a member of the opposite gender.
 
Oh I don't know so much. Didn't the Ancient Greeks think that women were OK but not as good as the real thing?

And I suspect that, outside of the Churches' official doctrines maybe, being homosexual didn't become really stigmatized in the West until the C19th.

(A suspicion that I'm basing on nothing, of course. Just that human beings don't fundamentally change all that much.)
 
Oh I don't know so much. Didn't the Ancient Greeks think that women were OK but not as good as the real thing?

I'll leave it to any real historians around here to answer that definitively if they want to, but my understanding from what I've read is that no, reports of rampant homosexuality in the ancient world are pretty overblown. My understanding of what I've read is that it happened, but such affairs were expected to be kept as open secrets at most, never right out in the open, and people were still expected for social reasons to marry and produce heirs.
 
@ OP: Fine, but don't underestimate the important work that the "born this way" notion did in overturning the stigma attached to homosexuality. That way of framing the matter allowed the gay pride/gay rights movement to make it a civil-rights issue by analogy with the civil rights movement for African-Americans: i.e. just as someone being born a certain race, something out of their control, shouldn't be made a grounds for poor treatment or denying rights, so too should this given not be the grounds for discrimination. It was actually when homosexuality was considered a behavior rather than an inborn disposition that it was easiest to stigmatize as a sin (i.e. something you could either do or not do, and therefore that one was potentially morally culpable for doing.)

But well before the gay rights movement had the success that it has had, I read an article that made your argument: it shouldn't have to matter whether this is innate, or whether I just choose to do it out of sheer caprice; the government has no business in my sexual life. i suspect something like that may now emerge as a next phase of the movement.

Right, I can accept that disposition at that point; I hope that your suspicion is correct though. Legitimizing behavior through nature this way implies the behavior in itself is bad, a vice, evil, etc., as outlined in the OP. So yeah I hope your suspicion is correct.

Yeah, the sentence is a little tortured.

Lemme rephrase.

If you outlawed gay relationships and being gay is a choice then all the gays could simply choose to not be gay and have satisfying relationships. The fact that being gay isn't a choice means that in preventing gay relationships you're preventing them from having satisfying relationships. The damage in outlawing is greater in the case where being gay is not a choice.

I understand that. I agree that gay isn't a choice, but the point is more, it's not morally relevant whether it is. Or, it shouldn't be relevant.

The thing is that if you are gay, you may be helping your non-gay relative spread his genes, but there's no guarantee he has any gay genes, whereas its 100% sure you have them. Therefore by helping him instead of reproducing yourself, you are still most likely reducing the probability of these gay genes passing on.

But isn't the point that populations with a critical mass of, forgive me, "gay uncles" will prosper more than populations without? As in, a genetic code that randomly produces gays every once in a while is more effecient than one without. I'm not a biologist, so I wouldn't know, but isn't it possible for it to work this way?
 
Right, I can accept that disposition at that point; I hope that your suspicion is correct though. Legitimizing behavior through nature this way implies the behavior in itself is bad, a vice, evil, etc., as outlined in the OP. So yeah I hope your suspicion is correct.

Oh, I don't know. It's true that the Christian notion that what is natural is sinful held sway for over a thousand years, but I think starting with Rousseau, and pretty firmly established in Western culture by now, is the view that "natural" is good: intrinsically healthy, innocent, etc.
 
Oh, I don't know. It's true that the Christian notion that what is natural is sinful held sway for over a thousand years, but I think starting with Rousseau, and pretty firmly established in Western culture by now, is the view that "natural" is good: intrinsically healthy, innocent, etc.

So much so, in fact, that we're starting to swing way too far on the opposite side of the pendulum, with more and more people erroneously claiming that nothing synthetic can ever be good.
 
I just don't understand why we consider homosexuality as natural and yet we don't consider bestiality and incest as natural, because the argument is normally that since homosexuality is practised in nature, then it is natural. yet the other two things are practised in nature and yet we don't call them natural and actually have laws against them.
 
I've heard arguments for incest to be legalized. I have not, however, heard arguments that animals are capable of consent.
 
I just don't understand why we consider homosexuality as natural and yet we don't consider bestiality and incest as natural, because the argument is normally that since homosexuality is practised in nature, then it is natural. yet the other two things are practised in nature and yet we don't call them natural and actually have laws against them.
"Natural" is a notoriously sloppy term so the question is always debatable.

One important difference between the two is it seems like the inclination towards homosexual behavior is deeply instinctive in certain individuals. Whatever inclines them towards it is determined early in life and is immune to the whims of society. Incestuous and bestial behaviors I suspect are far more circumstantially motivated then based on some innate desire.
 
I'm more interested in the biology. Traits counterproductive to passing on your genes should biologically weed themselves out without any government persecution.

This is OT from the specific discussion on the tread, but I want to say that there is no imperative that they should. The idea that people are just machines for the expression of genes is total bollocks. One thing we can observe time and again throughout history is that humans constantly overcome specific "reproductive disadvantages" they have. Because we have things such as reason, civilization, tools, society: the "fittest" does not depend on any specific trait and the "human environment" is ever changing. The use and abuse of simple biological concepts on the political discussions of humans and society always pisses me off - this is bad science, people! Bad as in incompetent.

For reproductive and evolutionary purposes, being gay is quite obviously an inferior biological trait. Denying this is almost like denying climate change.

Funny that you should put it that way. I'm happy to deny it.

Just to put one gaping hole on your theory: humans have far, far more sex that that necessary for reproductive purposes. Not that it from there and start drawing consequences. Hint: the first is that "having less sex with members of the opposite sex" has no bearing on reproduction, so long as it doesn't fall to "having no sex". Other notable consequences is that sex serves other purposes among humans and those also have an influence on reproduction as they impact on the social conditions on which the individual lives. But this is going into the whole "history of sex" thing which is still not well studied prior to the modern age.

Oh I don't know so much. Didn't the Ancient Greeks think that women were OK but not as good as the real thing?

The greeks were weird. No one knows how the ordinary greeks thought. We can infer some things but it's not clear when they wrote of relations between males just what was and wasn't "sexual" as we understand it now. Certainly ****ing around with many men was frowned upon - which means that it happened! Likewise for older men. Women were probably not much mentioned just because they were overlooked by the writers in a male-oriented society but I guess that most sex was heterossexual then as now and people got whatever kind they liked.

And I suspect that, outside of the Churches' official doctrines maybe, being homosexual didn't become really stigmatized in the West until the C19th.

(A suspicion that I'm basing on nothing, of course. Just that human beings don't fundamentally change all that much.)

It was stigmatized in Rome, the church picked up from that more than from jewish traditions. Church positions on the subject didn't had much of an impact on daily practical life until the reformation and counter-reformation and even afterwards only punished what was public: inquisitors wanted to make sure no one challenged the church by disobeying in public, but had neither the resources not the inclination to persecute what people did without witnesses. Those, should they bother to confess to their priest, would be given the usual penances - and carry on.
 
Please do tell. Even if the thread focuses on something else. :p
Gay guys can help take care of their brother & sister's kids & become trusted warriors or members of the tribe (who can be trusted more than other men around their friend's wives).

IIRC, gay men's sister's tend to have more babies than the sister's of straight men.

Also being bi could be adaptive in times of short-supply of females, letting men keep from going insane from sexual frustration (enough to make me wish I was bi sometimes).

Evolution is more about group survival than individual survival (especially since much of the group is related to you).

Quick unrelated question. If you are bi, and you live in a city big enough to hold a decent amount of gay men, who would you ever deal with women? I've asked my friend who is bi this & he admits all things told he prefers women to men. If you find them both equal why ever chase women since men are so much easier?
 
Could be something to that though honestly, all chase & no taste makes Narz an irritable boy (its hard going from triple digits per year to probably average of once a month over the last two years :(, variety has increased but it does not make up for quantity).
 
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