Boy, I should have done a lot better than I have so far. I've a lot to learn about city placement and waging war. My deficiencies are magnafied by having to put my troops on a boat to attack. That's a lot harder to plan than just crossing the road in the back yard and thumping on the door.
heres a snipet of my QSC. The times are way behind most other posters.
3400BC Learn Pottery order writing due in 39
2750BC Carthage build granary
2550BC Carthage built settler
2470BC Utica founded order pyramid prebuild for Great Lighthouse
2270BC Carthage built settler
2230BC Learn writing order Map Making
2110BC Leptis Magna founded order warrior
1575BC Learn Map Making order Cerimonial Burial
1475BC Learn Cerimonial Burial order Wheel
1350BC Learn Wheel order Philosophy
1325BC Pompeii founded
1200BC Learn Philosophy order Code of Laws
1100BC Galley E contact Egypt warrior
Buy bronze,warrior code,territory map from Egypt for writing,WM,51g,4gpt
Buy iron working from Egypt for philosophy,37g
1025BC Plebis Magna founded order warrior
1000BC Goody Hut minoan teaches us Mystism
Since QSC ended, I stopped recording my timeline. If I had a better system, I think I would be better off continuing that.
I've been at war with Egypt. They sneak-attacked my city between the wheat and iron on the island to their west. I successfully defended, upgraded a bunch of warriors to swords and sent troops towards them. I auto-razed a city they just built at the southern tip of the wheat/iron/wine strip. I lost had the last spear down to 2HP in their city on the tiny island south of Thebes but lost the rest of my attack force to him.

I think I lost 4 swords. Without any punch left I sued for peace and Cleo gave me her new city on the northern tip of the wheat/Iron/wine island. I've been amassing a second invasion force and will do a better job as far as concentrating an attack and bringing enough troops to do the job.
I built the Great Lighthouse in my second city (it's always been my favorite wonder anyway for the added movement/range on galleys). Reading this thread makes me think I should have concentrated less on military and more on wonder building. Some posters have build 3 ancient wonders!?!?! I guess I forgot that was possible on Regent.
Cleo's culture is kicking my butt and I'm thinking it will be necessary to take her out in one war, quickly or I'll be taking the same cities three and four times after they flip back.
My beeline to Republic has help a little in terms of GPT. I'm also ready to trigger the GA in my next war with ~14 cities and workers to develop them. I'm hoping/praying for a FP-building leader in the coming genocide. My anarchy was only 4 turns thank goodness and was done during my war

. Good thing Cleo doesn't know how to fight on the ocean either. At one point, she sent three galleys each with one warrior at three different cities. One of their warriors actually kill one of my defending warriors and survived the sword attack on the next turn before dying to the second sword. What is she feeding these warriors?
After reading crackers remark and looking at Yndy's map, I'm going to pull all my defenders from their homes and send them at Egypt all at once. Hope that helps.